2006-06-26 23:23:03 · 13 answers · asked by jan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone deserves a second chance but if it was something you can not get over don't bother taking him/her back. It will cause problems. Leave the past in the past. Start over new.
2006-06-26 23:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by anabanana23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you mean over again with your ex???? If so your ex needs to go to counseling with you and you both need to work on the marriage and or relationship again before ever even think about being together again. However if you mean starting a new relationship someday with some one new take your time and heal and get over the past hurts and then over time slowly start to date again. By the way how did your ex hurt you badly?
2006-06-27 11:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be wise to have a relationship with such a person. Has he really changed, or is he putting on a show to get you back. You should learn from previous relationships and seek out a better future relationship with someone else. At least with someone else you might be able to identify the signs that you might be hurt.
2006-06-27 06:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by thomastl614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well coming out of a relationship that some body has really abuse you is a hard thing to do because of how he hurt you so badly you well always have that memory in back of your mind and you are thinking if you get into a other relationship there is a possible of that happening again and that is what you are afraid of
and you well always have your guard up and you are very scare of getting your self in that kind of commandment i know i have been there my wife abuse me and my children she walk out on us 4 years a go it was really hard on my two little girls and me and i lost all hope of finding some one in my life i been in and out of relationship since then and i still haven't found the right person yet but there one thing you have to remember is to start loving your self first go out and do thing for you self and enjoy life and dint worry about getting in to a relationship dont look for it it well come to you in good time because all good thing well come to those who wait but just take care of your self first and learn to love your self and feel good about your self then any thing is possible.
2006-06-28 03:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I have to say NO... your pass will aways be in the back of your mind, and will only be in your way of happiness. You will only use that hurt, as a tool, when you both get into a disagreement. So just move on to a new adventure.
2006-06-27 06:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by meatball288001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless someone has beaten u with stick, you must chase him. Generally relationships break because of communication gap. Dont let ur communication break. All will be all right.
2006-06-27 06:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time and stay on standby...men will always be there and will find one who will cherish U dearly...Don't jump into another trouble before being healed...
2006-06-27 08:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by benird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decipher why you need drama in your life before you jump into anything, but after that follow your heart my friend
2006-06-27 19:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by infinitefair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because most times its just easier to move on, plus you can always find someone better
2006-06-27 06:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by steve1402003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him go for it without thinking twice mistakes are done to be forgiven all the best
2006-06-27 06:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by mahek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋