iam close to one of male friend, we both travel together & sits in the same seat, but now i came to know people are speaking in behind that we both are in some relations but we are just good friends not more than that. We both are married & we have our own family. So please help me to sort this b'coz i don't want people to speak in behind. Please help me. Sudden i cannot avoid him or stop speaking to him.
2006-06-26 21:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
anything that you do on this earth whether good or bad people will talk so why worry abt them. stop worry if only your husband knows him and is wife is ok with you around her husband then please stop listening to what people say. and one thing, don't try to explain any thing to any of those people for they will have more to say. stay as if you never heared any thing and don't see your friend. good luck
2006-06-26 22:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Prisca 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well.. i've seen some married couple, still hand out with their old friends and having dinner, going out together. Well the most important thing in life and in a relationship is trust. Don't let what other people say bother you in your life.
The mouth belongs to them, Just let them speak as they wish or confront them to clear things up. Well i rather not choose the 2nd option cause they might think that you're being all defensive over this issue.
Just ignore them. Well i don't think they have a best friend like you're having now. Anyway always remember that the most important thing in life is trust.
2006-06-27 05:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by icecube_11_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i can understand ur position as I have also gone through this situation but in my views people are meant only for talking so instead of avoiding ur friend u should avoid people let them say atleast u know ur not wrong so where's the prob. enjoy ur life and never go wrong.Take care best of luck!!!!
2006-06-27 05:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by diya vallya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend!,
First of all I want to tell you that you can not zip the lips of the people. It's natural. If you are not doing any wicked things, then why to fear?
Just ignore them, because they don't know the relationship between you and your friend.
2006-06-27 05:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by bluetoothbirds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let people talk, everyone is free to think whatever they want, you just feel good with what you do and what you think, dont let people that talk behind affect you, if someone have something to tell you will tell it to you in your face so :) keep your friend and have fun just knoiwing what ppl say about you two
2006-06-27 05:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cristian R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna save your life and your family pl stay away from him dont even talk with him, why do you need to ? just think if your husband comes to know ? and worst what would the effect be on your children - do you really want to spoil them.
2006-06-27 05:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him and your partner its for the best if you are having doubts about your marrage then tell them both see where the land lies. remember life is 1 big game and you need to live it to its fullest potential.
2006-06-27 05:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by mrpickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so just ignore what those bloody people out there will say, they should keep their ******* remarks and opinion to themselves.
2006-06-27 08:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-27 05:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋