me and josh go back about 3 years, i lost my virginity to him and we dated for 1 month, then we abruptly stopped talking. then i met aaron we fell in love fast but it was true love, and we had been together for 2 1/2 years.Our relationship had many problems, and Aaron and i just recently broke up and afterwards all i wanted was him and i told him that, the past 3 weeks ive tried so hard to try and make us work but he never wanted to talk about our problems, or let anything go. he disrespected me numarous times and so ihis friend josh stepped in and we (me and josh) hung out for the weekend, i had so much fun with him and didnt have to worry about a thing the whole time, he had it all taken care of. I had sex with him 4 times that weekend and i feel so bad now because we said i love you to each other and i do have love for him but im not 'in love' with him, the thing is aaron is in my heart my first love and i do love him more than anything, i believe we can work evrything out if i want
2006-06-26 21:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by mystic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but aaron has alot of problems in his life at this time. I want to be with him, but i dont want to hurt josh, (we are supposed to hang out this weekend) if i decide to b with aaron, i cannot let him back into my life right away, i will need some time to think clearly about it, but in the mean time what should i do with josh? i dont know mabey i should b with him, he has all his sh*t figured out and has minimal problems in his life, and i always have so much fun when im with him. what do i do? they both want to be in a longterm committed relationship with me and i know that they both will be faithful but im not sure who to pick and what to do about the other one. please help me out with some advice!
2006-06-26 21:57:25 · update #1
Sounds like they both have baggage. Its time to find a new circle of acquaintances. Two guys are not a large enough sample to decide on anything long term. These guys are not in love with you, they are in love with your sex. The first always has a special place but there are very few first and only true loves.
2006-06-27 00:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you just added a new problem to the list of Aaron's problems, by having sex with Josh. So now you must move on, and tell Josh, that you were not thinking when you told him that you loved him right after you had sex with him. It was just a crazy thing to say at the moment.
And as for Aaron, if your not willing to put up with he's problems you must move on. Good luck...
2006-06-27 07:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by meatball288001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure can see why this is a tough one for you. You should slow down with both and think things through. If it were me however i would pick Josh because he seems to be the one most level headed and with common sense. It is your choice however and you need to think and think with your heart and go from there. I wish you the best in making the right choice for you!
2006-06-27 10:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a step back and slow it down sweetie you have more time than you realize to date.U jump to one then to the other slow it down in less that's what you want is the feel good thing and that don't last long oooo love is such a big word love self first then you can find real love for others. all this is such deep things to talk about
2006-06-27 05:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by cookinit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Josh is definetely better if you want to have a good long term relationship.
2006-06-27 05:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by pinar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch, ur in a tough spot sweetie, i suggest u to find another better guy so u don't have to choose and create even more problems.
And i'm sure u don't want a relationship with lots of problems with..
2006-06-27 04:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r not love any 1 of this u love only sex
2006-06-27 05:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by pu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u
2006-06-27 04:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3some
2006-06-27 06:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋