hi, no jokes please. I'm not a pervert, I really love my husband
and he's the only one I've ever had sex with.we were virgins until we were married.
I have a really high sex drive and I know it's weird because I'm a girl, and If I had it my way I would make love with my husband about three times a day he likes the average at about once a day.
and it's not like I'm thinking about sex all the time either, I am just really attracted to him! I see him and I want to touch him.
we have only been married since December, do you think it's just a newly wed thing and I'll lose intest like everyone else?
my husband finds having sex in the middle of the day inconveiniant. whats wrong with me? I read somthing about too much testosterone, but I'm not hairy and am very womenly.
please help.
2006-06-26 21:43:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't believe in playing the field
or masterbation....
2006-06-26 21:57:32 · update #1
I don't bother him about it anymore because he acts weirded out... he thinks I need medication.
2006-06-26 21:59:33 · update #2
You may have to start masturbating if nothing else is working for you here or you may also want to talk with your doctor about this and see what they have to say about it as well. You sound like you are going through a sexual peak right now and this may be very normal for you and for your body. Your body will go through changes and so will your sex drive. It will be higher at times then others. This is very normal.
2006-06-27 03:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sexiest part of a human body is the brain. The harmones secreted by your brain and their action on your body is important as far as the medical part is concerned. You should try and talk out things with your hubby as hes the person who needs to understand the problem as much as you.
Once you have done that you need to help yourself with some meditation because, it will help you in controll of the feeling and diverting your urge or that extra power to do some other constructive things.
Any relationships should be two ways, even sex is a relationship hence you should help yourself by talking to your hubby! and taking the problem more sincerely.
2006-06-26 22:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found myself a weirdo with this thinking, till i read your question. I finally found someone that is like me...
I love my hubby too. We have been married for a year. He's also the only one i've ever had sex with, before marriage and after marriage. I love to touch him and have sex. I'm not asking for everyday but maybe alternative days... His sex drive is low... just once a week, so i'm the one requesting.
i've try talk things out with my hubby, i've told him that i need more. Things didn't improve much. So to make things more "convinent", i'll try settle with masterbation when i've the urge (once a week).
2006-06-26 23:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by cookiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great! You just keep it right in your bedroom and tell your husband that you need him to understand because when you get to thirty you slow way down. I'm telling you 4X month (LOL)
And there is nothing wrong with it! He should be lucky..Enjoy!
2006-06-26 21:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by MissChatea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not weird because you are a girl. it's normal because you are young. sounds like you got married too young though, most people your age will "play the field".
since you can't (or shouldn't) fool around, I suggest BOB - the Battery Operated Boyfriend (vibrator). your local sexshop will have several varieties
2006-06-26 21:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sex is great and I love doing it with my G/F but more then that I love being with her try your best to forget about it and just enjoy being with you Husband.
2006-06-26 21:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by jamesiewaimsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unnatural at all. I felt the same way when I was younger. Your husband should consider himself very lucky!
2006-06-26 21:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lotte T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's sorta cute, but it's just showing that u really love him and attracted to him and that's a good thing. and i dont think nothing can control it not unless u cant see him, and i know u don't want that
2006-06-26 21:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on
2006-06-26 22:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋