I almost did. Tried to drug myself with medication and drink. I love him, i knew he is a married man. He promised to be with me. I lost control of myself I tried to jump off a building in front of his eye.
2006-06-26 21:39:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO ONE is worth your life! no one, my dear....especially a married man!! To paraphrase Eleanor Roosevelt: no one can make you feel anything without your permission! This was a hard life lesson for you: never go after a married man. So what good would killing yourself do? Teach him a lesson? No hon. It will roll off of him like water off a duck's back....and you'll be dead. Oh yeah..that'll teach him. You are WORTH MORE than that! I try to follow the three R's in life: 1. Respect for others 2. Respect for SELF 3. Responsibility for one's own actions. He is not worth it...find a man who appreciates the beautiful wonderful unique person that you are...one who isn't married....and allow yourself to be happy....you deserve happiness and you deserve to be loved properly. It starts with loving yourself enough to take control back of your life and stop giving this man so much power over you. ((((((hugs))))))) good luck!
2006-06-27 00:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Dun give up the forest because of one tree. There are a lot of good guys around you. U can take your time to choose. I believe that you can find someone better than him.
Dun die for the sake of love. Your action can hurt your family members and those who love you more. Remember failure is not the end of the world.
2006-07-03 10:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't. and it seems that you could be inadvertently trying to emotionally manipulate this man for all of the wrong reasons. it doesn't work and you are worth more than that. i had a love who used to do that to me all the time and as harsh as it sounds, it gets tiresome and boring. but my love always didn't 'quite do the job.' sweetheart, please let him go. if he says one thing to you and does another (typically a married persons 'game' just to keep you on a string) then he is not showing you how much he loves you he's showing what a coward and liar he is. like i said...you are worth more than this...and you are worth having someone TRULY love you. take care
2006-06-27 04:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help always comes to a person who asks for it. Just to inform you, you are not the lone person whos may be done this mistake as you feel now but to be frank really accept, whats happened is happened you cannot change but theres someone else who can bring about a change in your life or you can change his/her life for instance. Help them to realize the facts and basically learn to talk, it will help you a lot.
Life is a game where everyone knows the rules, but no one knows to play!
Break rules life life! it helps.........
2006-06-27 05:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide is the most selfish act. Its a permanent solution to a temporary issue that just hurts people closest to you and makes them carry your baggage for a lifetime. With the exception of taking a bullet for my kid, nothing and no one else is worth dying for. More fish in the sea. Find one thats actually attainable and that appreciates you
2006-06-27 04:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really good that you love someone so much but dear please dont waste your life for the sake of a jerk like this one. life is a precious gift from God and you must use it for better propose ok. learn to live life - bring a smile to someone in their life and see how life smiles back at you - remember this is not the end - you sound to be say 26 yrs - that's it - life just starts here and dont be guilty feeling about anything. just love yourself.
2006-06-27 04:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't if I want something good to come out of it. Dying won't help apparently. It just ends the matter abruptly and YOU get NOTHING out of it but lose your life. So yea, weigh your risk girl. and do take love your body as well. =)
2006-06-27 05:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie i can feel his pain... my boyfriend almost shot his self because his parents r having a fight and his brother hates his guts... it really hurted me but not mad.. just really really sad
2006-06-27 04:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋