my husband cheats and im pregnant should i leave him or ignore the fact that he cheats?
2006-06-26 20:52:35 · 26 answers · asked by mommy_of_3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.
2006-06-26 21:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read some of the answers here and damn people can be so stupid...You need to leave that man. first of all you two are married and hes breaking his vow. he could easily go out there and pick up an std and give it to you and your innocent child. some crazy biotch can show up at your door step claiming shes pregnant or worse...try to harm you and your children. hes a *********. a b.a.s.t.a.r.d and a f.u.c.k.e.n. w.h.o.r.e. let him lose and infest all those other women im sure know about you and can careless about your feelings. do not let that man abuse you anymore than he already has. it will never stop in less you leave him. he might stop for a little while if you give him a scare but he will do it again soon after...hes sick..he should be prasing you and his new child an instead hes focused on his own selfish needs. I hate cheaters with a passion...leave him as soo as you can..no one said it would be easy but it will pay off in the end. you have to be mentaly stable to deal with your child he might get you angry enough that you might even consider hurting you, the baby or both..please dont let it get that far..leave him now
2006-06-26 21:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by redserenity0804 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious thing is WHY have you stayed. And why would you even consider ignoring his cheating.
Can you imagine the life your child will have?
I say, run don't walk. Obviously this man hasn't honored or respected his marriage vows. It doesn't seem like he will change. I woudldn't trust him at all.
You need to get your self esteem up and LEAVE. You and your child deserve better. If you need to find a women's group in town that can help you. or maybe a church. Be strong. Get away while you can. If you can't do it for yourself. Do it for your child.
2006-06-26 21:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a single mom is hard so before u dump him and take away the blessing of haveing two parents from your child, sit him down and talk to him. ask him if he wants to be with u and if hes commited to u and ur baby. ask him if hes happy and actually WANTS to stay. Be strong and dont beg for him to stop cheating. If he keeps it up after this talk yeah...you should dump him..Good luck ^^
2006-06-26 21:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring his cheating isn't going to make the problem go away. Dumping him will.
2006-06-26 21:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes only because you can do better don't ever ignore something that dose or can hurt you and believe if it don't hurt now it will every person deserves the best your time on this earth has to offer an that is far from the best
2006-06-26 21:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are allowing him to disrespect you. While that is your choice, do you want your child to grow up thinking that cheating on a pregnant wife is OK? A boy child might grow up thinking he doesn't need to be faithful, and a girl child might grow up thinking she doesn't deserve a man who loves her and will be faithful.
2006-06-26 20:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by smartsassysabrina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you once then if you love him you can forgive him.
If, however, he has constatly cheated on you then he may not love you enough to control his desires. If you want it to work try talking to a marriage counselor. If that does not work then leave him.
This ryhme should help you decided what you should do:
Fool me once shame on you, but fool me twice shame on me.
2006-06-26 21:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's getting enough at home, he shouldn't be cheating, if he still does, then yeah you deserve someone better. also, pregnant sex isn't bad for the baby as long as you're comfortable and not in pain while doing it.
2006-06-26 20:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by rob415sfc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave him. But first, plan how to maximize the division of assets. Also find out if he has any hidden assets. Try to get the share that you deserve. Then bye bye.
2006-06-26 21:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Man_Hat_Tan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋