man im in love with his collegemate working under uncle of guy i love has asked me to marry him.man im in love with is 5yr old family friend who i met over phone.we love eachother.my family is making a big deal about this marriage proposal.please can u give me excuses to refuse marriage to him to my family?(i cant say im in love with family friends son)should i tell man i love his friend proposed marriage to me.
2006-06-26 20:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont listen of all of them are u going to run to this man tell him marry me as my parents are forcing me to get married?haha hes going to be a man dont do that.during this time dont be in touch with this guy tell ur parents i wont get married now go off get a new job move to a new place then date man u love if not find a nice guy get married settle down marriage should be based on love and marriage shouldnt be for any other reason then two people themselves wanting to spend their life together not parents.
2006-06-28 07:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the man you love that your family wants to wed you off! tell him that he should propose and bring his parents over immediatly if he loves you; if he can and does then plead his case with your family...if he does not he does not love you enough to take stand for you and has left you in disgrace and humiliation...forget him and marry the man your family is telling you to!
never take stand for a man who does not stand for you and do not make your family your enemy for a man who does not love you...marriage must have consents of all and if a man loves you he will always take stand for you...give him a week's time and no more...dont let him ruin your life though some cheap telephone promises and sweet talk
2006-06-27 04:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you know the guy you're in love with? Why hasn't he proposed? even better, why aren't you guys dating?
That should say A LOT about the situation. What about the guy who proposed, do you even like him as a friend? You don't have to get married, not just yet.
2006-06-27 03:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best reason for not marring the guy who proposed to you is that you don't love him. if your not even dating the guy who proposed why is he asking you to marry him. i don't understand why you cant date who you want to. you should only marry someone you are in love with and plan to spend the rest of your life with. good luck and take care
2006-06-27 04:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by truckinglove22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bit hard to understand, but don't marry the WRONG guy, you will regret it forever...you don't have to worry about making your family happy, they don't have to sleep with your hubby every-night.........
2006-06-27 03:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell man you love.
2006-06-27 03:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and tell them all how you really feel!
2006-06-27 04:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by oneladysin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry what
this i what i thought i read
i am in love with a man but his friend is who i am really in love with and his friend proposed to me and i have to tell the one i used to love about this but i need to give an excuse to my family about this
right or wrong???
i'm soz but be clearer next time ................................................................................................................................................................................................................................... i read it 5 times.................................................................................................................................... no joke
smile
2006-06-27 04:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋