I am 16 and i am dating a 14 yr old male. he is insecure about his penis. but it is a little more than 7 inches. and i try to tell him that he is above average. he just won't listen. what can i do to help his emotions???
2006-06-26 19:47:49 · 13 answers · asked by abc 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You shouldn't be having sex right now. Tell him to put his penis back in his pants
2006-06-26 19:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by ~∂Їβ~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave it in his pants for another 2 years, and then ty to talk about it. If nothing else, then it's no longer illegal. 14's to young for anything like that, mentally and physically. Besides the fact, that he may grow a bit in a year of so. Though god help it if he does; most women are only large enough to take 6 inches or so.
2006-06-27 03:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness. He really shouldnt be worried about the size of his penis because he is still growing. He is still just a boy. And I am very concerned that either of you are having any kind of sexual contact at all. Honestly, while it may seem fun and feel good or whatever, neither of you are prepared emotionally or physically for what sex means and entails. Your question is proof of this. I applaud your concern for his feelings but I truly wish you would reconsider the sex issue. You seem as if you truly care about him and if that is so, you must be aware that 14 is just too darn young for sex at all. Perhaps you could rediscover each other thru talk and feelings without bringing sex into it yet. please.
2006-06-27 03:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by DagStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you get a lot of comments like ask your dad and things of that nature, I am a parent, I have three sons and my boys can come to me with anything, I am going to talk to you like I talk to the, First off you nor he should be worried about the size of his penis, you should be doing other things like going to the movies or something, but if you have already crossed that line and gone all the way, I pray that you were safe doing it, Tell him not to worrie most men who are 30 aren't that big, he is Blessed
2006-06-27 06:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Renita D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 and 14 you should not even be having this conversation. How are your grades in school, read any good books lately, how about church, maybe try getting a job????? There has to be something that you could do besides sex!!!!!!
2006-06-27 02:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why they hell are you thinking about having sex with a 14 year old...tell him to put his penis back in his pants and wait a couple of years
2006-07-03 23:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Allie H. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god he is going to be a monster by the time he is old enough to drink... tell him if his dick were any bigger it would tip him over forward every time a hot girl walked by in the hall at school.
also refer him to some chiropractors for future reference when he reaches his 20's. also it is all about the girth that matters not the length for most women.
2006-06-27 02:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having sex right now. Tell him to put his penis back in his pants
2006-06-27 03:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing...at 14 he is insucure about everything. as he gets older and more in touch with himself...he won't worry about what others think about things like that,he will be secure un himself
2006-06-27 02:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by megansmomokc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt be insecure about it. 4 his age he's kanda big. tellem dont worry about it.
2006-06-27 03:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋