Do guys really judge based on this? Is it common? I want her to get over this. I say that guys look at the whole package, but she is hung up on how women are "supposed to" look. I want honest answers from men and women, please.
2006-06-26 19:42:27 · 14 answers · asked by Doodle 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
I have stretch marks and just try to not think about it. I think if she is a big woman she'll have no problem b/c guys that are attracted to BBw's in the first place have no problem with stretch marks
However if she is skinny with stretchmarks, she'll probably date more superficial men and WILL care and not like them
2006-06-26 19:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~∂Їβ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh, depends on the guy really. If the stretch marks are really as big as you say, it might be a prob for some if not all guys. As you said, a lot of guys look at the whole package rather than the headlights. So my guess is, it could be a problem. It really depends on the guy. And they make medicine to make stretch marks fade away.
2006-06-26 19:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by psychoassassin424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally do not like stretch marks, but that is a smaller picture, the picture really is the person and how i enjoy to be with her. if she passes as a wonderful person her stretch marks would not even matter. The "whole package" includes the person...and not just her body.
2006-06-26 19:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Gee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who can't see past some scars aren't worth worrying about. Some men can be superficial prisses who think that they deserve perfection. But that kind of idiocy isn't reserved for men only. Ask how many women are cool with a man who has a hairy back. Yeah, not a lot of hands shoot up in the air when you ask that question.
2006-06-26 19:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person could be grossed out by anything. Seriously. The short answer is it depends on the guy. And, if he likes the woman he'll like her stretch marks too.
2006-06-27 18:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Clayton B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stretch marks fade in time, especially if they're from when you're young and growing fast. As for me, I've got them and no guy has ever screamed and run away in disgust. Guys are self-concious about their own bodies and I think most like to be with someone who isn't too perfect so they don't have to spend time worrying about themselves. It might not be something they go looking for, but stretch marks are just another flaw on our natural bodies.
2006-06-26 19:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry honey, most men aren't even going to notice those faint marks so your fine. And if any guy says anything then he's an idiot and not worth your time. He loves your boobs and that's all that matters right?
2016-03-27 05:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to use cocoa butter..it will help....but juzz cheer her up..men r not so shallow so as to get grossed out due to stretch marks..most women,fat or thin have stretch marks..
but juz ask her to continue the cocoa butter routine(apply after a shower when skin is a little damp)..im sure if done regularly,ur fren will stop cribbing after 6 months..she must have patience..meanwhile tell her to boost her self confidence..she is probably more grossed out than the men she has been talking about.probably its all in her mind.....
juz ask her to de-stress..
2006-06-27 05:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and personally It doesn't matter to me. I'm more interested in other aspects of the breast myself rather than if it has stretch marks or not. Doesn't bother me.
2006-06-26 19:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once dated this girl with some skin problems on her arms.
but she was one of the best girlfriends i have had.
in short, to an extent its just shallow and superficial to be grossed out by them. In the end, the whole person matters.
2006-06-26 19:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by indiancheef 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋