2006-06-26 19:10:14 · 11 answers · asked by Adrian W 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
find a new girl. trust me. no matter what you do, you will never be more important than daddy. he will always have control.
2006-06-26 19:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by R H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have more control. I have dealt with all types of fathers, obviously you must take into account the girls real feelings in this if they are indeterminate then you will have trouble but if she is clear in her desires you already have the first makings of a weapon to nudge the father figure aside. First you must not fear him, second you must confront him without that fear. In this way the seriousness of your intent will be clear. If he fails to be reasonable with you, well, there are always backhanded ways of dealing with a situation that can not be approached from the front. Whatever you do, remember the girls feelings are paramount. Proceed ONLY if you are certain of them.
Also do not listen to the negativity of those who would say if she is under aged that you have no options. If you care about something you fight for it, no matter what laws say about it. Parenting laws are NOT final, there ARE ways around them. I wish you luck.
2006-06-27 02:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by kyrant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl no longer lives at home, you worry that you will always have to compete with dad. If he impedes the relationship and she does nothing about it, then you may have some serious issues later in life.
If the girl still lives at home, ask yourself why you are seriously involved with someone who hasn't moved out yet.
2006-06-27 02:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is help her realize she can make up her own mind. Then her father will not have that control over her. Encourage her and be supportive when she makes any effort to think for herself. Eventually she'll break away from him, and you'll be there when she does.
2006-06-27 02:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by niteowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school, get a career, get a good job, buy a house, save up for marriage and I dont think the Father would mind you to be his daughters boyfriend then husband:)
2006-06-27 02:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by wiseornotyoudecide 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad will have the control until daughter lets go. Understand that and make your next decision on that.
2006-06-27 02:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by asmul8ed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the age of the daughter,if she is a minor,he does have all the say so.
2006-06-27 02:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start with a firm dropkick to the knee... That should severely cripple him for the remainder of the fight.
2006-06-27 02:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by Joka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know the situation obviously but seeing how there is no way to change anyone. be real let him know how you feel (which probably wont do anything) then decide wether it worth staying for. potentialy for the rest of your life
2006-06-27 02:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's under 18 you can't. If she's over 18, it's her battle.
2006-06-27 02:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jade Ariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋