i wanna have sex but i'm only 13 what do i do???

Answer 1

JUST KEEPING SAYING NO, NO, NO and mean it!!!

Answer 2

u think u want to have sex but u really don't . at 13 u r just starting 2 grow up a little bit & u don't want to have ur child - teen hood years taken away from u . take life slow & b a kid - teen & enjoy life , when u get a lot older & u have been in a relationship with a young boy 4 over 6 months & u both know that u want 2 b with each other 4 a long time ( hopefully a life time ) then u both can make the decision as 2 when u feel comfortable enough with each other to have sex . don't throw ur good years of life away 4 something u will definately regret later .

Answer 3

You shouldn't have sex untill you're old enough that if you're carrying a baby people will think it's you son or daughter and not your little brother or sister.
And you should get married first.

You might not like hearing this but 13 is still a kid. You should wait at least 3 more years before you're even old enough to think about a boyfriend. And there's no way you're getting married for at least 5 years, probably more like 10.
Stop think about sex, get your mind out of the gutter and go do something fun.

Answer 4

The first thing I would ask myself in your situation, is " Why do I want to have sex, and who with?" When you grow up and get married, do you really want a spouse that has thought they loved someone else enough to have sex with them? It would make them more able to realize they like someone else more than you. Also, there are many strange and fatal diseases that you can get even if you do use "protection."Some of them are even worse than aids. A lot of teenagers these days do not realize the kind of trouble they are putting on themselves by having sex. I know a girl who has five children all under the age of eight. She is 21, not married, and unemployed. She almost had her first child when she was 14, but she had a miscarriage. Although she has 5 children, she has only been allowed to keep 2. The others are living with her mother. I'm sure she did not want that of life for herself or her kids. But it is too late to change that now. You are still young and you don't have to worry about anything like that happening to you. As long as you save you save yourself for marriage.

Answer 5

to tell u the truth,im 15 years old and almost 16,i had sex for the first time when i first turned 15.its pretty painful and u should wait until you meet the right person.the person i had sex with i am still dating and we have been dating since we were 14 years old.but a couple of hours ago,we may have concieved a baby that we are not ready for.our parents dont know about any of it,so if you do please use protection or pills or even the patch.if u really want to then hell,go for it but be safe and make sure its really what u want.i dont regret it even tho i may be pregnant at this moment.but seriously,be smart and wait for the right person and time.do what your heart tells u pretty much,plus u only live once so live it how u wanna

Answer 6

You arent ready for sex, you are only 13 years old! Wait until you have had a chance to mature more. When you are more of an adult and are with someone for a long time, then decide together if the time is right. You dont want to rush into it, it could be one of the biggest mistakes of your life, especially if you are only 13. You have plenty of time in your life to have sex when you are older, dont waste it having sex now.

Answer 7

I think you might want to just practice self love for awhile longer. I had a baby at 16 and it's hard. Teens get pregnant all the time and you don't really want to be one of them, do you? Also with Aids and Herpes, and other diseases out there, play it safe. You have all the time in the world to have sex. And lets be honest....sex isn't even good as a teen. It gets much better as you get older. I thought it was great and looking back....I realize it was horrible. Just wait. You'll be an adult before you know it and then you can make those choices. Don't rush to grow up. Trust me...bills, babies, responsibility....you don't need that now.

Answer 8

so you've pretty much heard everyone say no. honestly. I just turned 17 and if you do have sex at that early age, people will know. and people won't think it's cool. just being real here, you'd get the "prostitot" label. whichmeans a yound person heading for prostitution. dont do it to yourself honestly. it's not that cool. and yea 13 is young. we've all been there. we think we know everything at that age but think about it. if an average female lives to 79, and you've lived 13 out of 79, you've got a long way to go. you're still very young. don't do it. you're not gonna impress anyone

Answer 9

Whatever you do, don't do this.

I've known many who had sex when they were around your age and all I heard from them is regret. I have never heard that anyone regreted waiting okay? You're SO young. And I'm not that old either, I'm just 14, barely even 14, I've only been for a month. Just wait, okay? Wait until you find someone who loves you and who is commited to you. And when you ask him if he will be with you for ever, till death, and he says yes, and not just says yes, but you know, maybe then. Your virginity is a huge thing and when you are finlly in love and in a beautiful relationship with someone it will mean so much to them to know that you waited.

Answer 10

Sweetie, you are sooo young!!! I am 41 and I will tell you that it's not all that it's cracked up to be. You could get pregnant, get a disease that will kill you... most of all, the guys will not respect you. You will definately get a bad reputation, even if you don't get anything else. Wait several years and for the right guy. Enjoy being a teenager now, enjoy school and your family and friendships. If you get pregnant, that all WILL change and you'd wish that you had listened to this older person who's been aroung the block a few dozen times. Good luck and really think about if you are ready to compromise yourself. (SJR)

Answer 11

get a hobby sex is over rated. Don't do it get yoru education make a list of things you would like to do before you are 25 then do them after you have done all those things then re think the baby part. go volunteer at a Childrens hospital baby sit for the neighbors family friends get the feel of what it really takes to raise a baby because sex leads to being aparent.