I know this is strange, but hubby and i werent together at the time, and i think i am pregnant by the other man, should i just tell hubby, because he thinks that this child is his? i mean it could be either or.
2006-06-26 18:38:45 · 15 answers · asked by love hurts 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Whoops, tell the truth.
2006-06-26 18:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by thekilierdonut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a simuler situation. This girl got pregnent by 1 night stand. dident think anything of it. Told her boyfriend it was his. 3 years later the boyfriend wanted a DNA test because he sed the baby dident look like him. The baby want his. So theay broke up and the mom had to find the baby's daddy. The Dad turend out to be my husband. We have bean happly married for 1 1/2 year with a child on the way. Now we are getting hit with cort papers. and DNA tests and we have to pay alot of mony to the new mom. Do you think it is fare that my husband has to start being a fother today to a 3 year old he never even new he had? Or what about me do you think it is fare that my pitcher perfect dream of being a mommy to my one little child i have to me mommy to a nother that i dont even know? I know this might sound harsh but i hope it helps you out a little i think you should talk to the person you want to be with. If he leaves you isent it better to leave you know insted of later?
2006-06-26 18:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell hubby and the other man that you want to have a paternity test at the courthouse or the clinic and see who is your baby daddy and don't be afraid because you'll get through it and it's better than knowing the truth than to let be a lie and you definitely wouldn't want you child to grow up thinking that your husband is her daddy when he ain't
2006-06-26 19:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by MARCHAE N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy! I'm sure he had his liberties while you two were apart. I mean, it's up to you... but if he truly loves you, he can accept it hard as it is. Or he may reject the child. I don't know your husbands character, so it's hard for me to say. How long were you apart (think about that one)? Or, you can just let him believe it is his and leave it at that. Good luck! (SJR)
2006-06-26 18:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by sandra r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell hubby. when the child is born do a test to find out whose it is
2006-06-26 18:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell the truth. It's not fair to your husband who trusted you not to sleep around on him. He shouldn't be forced to take care of another mans baby.
2006-06-26 18:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell your husband. Honesty is the most important thing in a relationship.
2006-06-26 18:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by dreamgurl009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you think the kid might be someone else's and after that tell the other guy. after EVERYBODY knows, you need to get a DNA test and see whose child it is. APOLOGIZE after all of that to whomever the child does not belong to. good luck
2006-06-26 18:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by *BeTtY* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Maury Show! He'll help you figure out who the baby-daddy is.
2006-06-26 18:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by sarah w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably tell him. Keeping it a secret won't help.. it'll only make you feel guilty.. and he'll eventually find out. Lies lead to more lies.. and lies breakdown relationships. Best of luck.
2006-06-26 18:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by ockristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋