even though it is just a platonic.. my man is just not keen on the idea of me talking to any of ex's.
2006-06-26 18:33:09 · 13 answers · asked by ms janice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dr. Phil's definition of cheating: Anything you do that you would not do if your spouse was standing beside you. This includes email, inappropriate talk, lunches, etc. Or, if you are hiding it from him.
2006-06-27 04:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though your man has trust issues. Are you the same way? You have to look at it as if you are the person it's happening to. If he was talkin to his ex would you care. Although just emailing shouldn't be considered cheating it depends on the extent of your conversations with your ex. I don't lable anything as cheating as long as you aren't intimate with the other person. When I say intimate I mean kissing, hugging in an inappropriate manner, and rubbing on each other. You know, something that you and your significant other would do. If it is a problem with your lover I say you take his thoughts into consideration because is it really worth losing him? If not, then think twice. It's good to be open also when you're doing things like this because why would you be telling him if your intent is to cheat? He might trust you more and give you more space and let you do it if you tell him, or he may say it's ok and go out and play his own game trying to make you feel how he does which may also result in some conflict. Whatever you do, do it wisely.
2006-06-27 01:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is somewhat unethical....but mostly it is disrespectful to the man that you have made a commitment to. Thats why we dont get married, so we can e-mail our exes or anyone we want for that matter. You may be hurting his feelings. good luck.
2006-06-27 01:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by frogspeaceflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not emotionally cheating it should be OK. But if you are confiding to your ex, things you should really be discussing with him then you are guilty...
2006-06-27 01:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by kitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I still email with 2 of my ex's - we talk about our kids, jobs, etc...
2006-06-27 01:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that cheating starts in the heart, long before any action happens. it all depends on what your intention is and what your intention is
2006-06-27 01:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by heylucy2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then it would be ok for him to do the same right what is good for you should be good for him I Hope I Answered Your Question! Good Luck
2006-06-27 01:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by 66hamerheadPD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to suck it up a little bit their is a reason they r exs if he trusts you their should be no problem
2006-06-27 01:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by wtf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happily married, then why are you emailing your ex'(s)???
2006-06-27 01:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not cheating, but he is insecure. trust is very important.
2006-06-27 01:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋