My boyfriend and I just started going out and he asked if he can touch my butt but didn't hold my hand yet..what?!
2006-06-26 18:28:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Weird! I'd tell him to slow down quite a bit. What's next he'll want you to take off your pants before he's even kissed you? YIKES!
2006-06-26 18:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa N 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Is this normal? Only if the guy is being ***REALLY CHEEKY***!! (Sorry, but I couldn't resist making a pun.)
No, but seriously: He's testing your personal boundaries to see how much improper behavior you'll let him get away with. This is a lose-lose situation, and the reason is because 1-If you go along with it, he'll disrespect you and assume that you're a "s**t," and 2-if you don't go along with it, then he'll drop you like the proverbial hot potato, and he'll go look for someone else to disrespect.
IOW, he's immature and a loser, and you can only lose out by staying with him. So drop HIM, and don't look back.
2006-06-26 18:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cyn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be like no way you're touching my butt. We just started dating. If you want to hold something buddy it is going to be my hand. Don't make it easy for him. Don't let him think that you are easy. If he thinks you are easy he wont respect you. Ever.
2006-06-26 18:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by lady_faith_1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course that's normal. some boys grab me on the butt that aren't my boyfriends. nothing 2 worri about.
2006-06-26 18:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by strawberrychelspink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is a very bad trend in America, and honestly I'd be glad that he actually asked instead of just grabbing you, trust me, a lot of guys will just grab...
2006-06-26 18:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by tripforyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i presume you allowed him to grab your butt. normally hand holding should come first. in my opinion, what your boyfriend did was disrespectful.
2006-06-26 18:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by queeng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real pervert. I would get rid of him. He will be pressuring you into alot of other things real soon. Good luck.
2006-06-26 18:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Catfishchic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll drop you as soon as you give it up. Not much of substance to build a relationship.
2006-06-26 18:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by manofadvntr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he respects you very much by the sounds of things
2006-06-26 18:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is moving fast so be carefull next it will be somthing else if you let him and you'll never hold hands>>>>ever
2006-06-26 18:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋