what is the problem,? Do couples no longer trust each other and why is everyone so suspicious? Should we all lighten up some....or rush out and get a PI License?
2006-06-26 18:17:58 · 12 answers · asked by one_charmed_01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all if that question was in response to my previous question **** OFF!! you people go on here for advice, not to hear some dumbass put us down and make us feel stupid. I am not spying on my husband. porn is wrong it is the most dirtiest thing in this world and if you like watching hey thats your business but i will not allow it in my home and i wanted to know how to make it to were he can't look it up. my kids go on the computer.
2006-06-26 18:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by pebbles68701 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everytime a man look at porn much less masterbate to porn he is deriving sexual pleasure from someone other than his wife. That is something that he should be doing with her and not wasting on only him. This seemlingly common thing can drive wedges into relationships in some very surprising ways.
Women are incredible when it comes to sensing chages in the people around them and especially their husbands. They have that women's intuition thing and it usually even helps them figure out what has caused the change. That means if her husband is no longer sexually frustrated she knows and there is a good chance she knows why. Then come the issues she then faces about not feeling sexy or inadequate as a lover. Some may even feel like eventually the porn will not be satisfying either and he may look elsewhere since he is already looking somewhere other than her.
This leads to her feeling like having less sex or desperately trying to fulfill fantasies she is not naturally comfortable with both of which further degrade her self esteem.
Porn can destroy relationships. It is not faithful, it is not loving and if there is a problem that you are seeking to avoid by turning to porn the problem will only get worse.
Been there, Done that. We are lucky to still have a marriage and I am so glad we do.
2006-06-27 01:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by allibris_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it has to do with the morals of the person or couple. Some people believe that even just looking at porn is morally wrong, and it just as bad as cheating. Also, If a man is looking at porn and is with a woman (attractive or not) it makes her feel less valued, because he obviously needs to look at something else.
2006-06-27 01:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by kd_duda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people in a relationship these days are likely to have encountered a failed relationship because either party has not been trustworthy. They want to make sure that it doesn't happen again. That's what makes them pessimists and that's what takes away the trust. Without trust, it's simply going to be like you said it, a career in PI.
2006-06-27 01:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant trust anyone these days that why people are so insecure they just always try to stay 2 steps ahead of each other
2006-06-27 01:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by losangledguirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for women one of the questions we ask ourselves is why do our husbands need to look at porn. I mean, aren't us real women good enough for you guys?
2006-06-27 01:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by heather47374 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking a porn.
2006-06-27 01:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One reason might be that it makes us women feel cheap...expecially if the only time our husband wants to touch us is after they've gotten their eyes full of other women
2006-06-27 01:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by boogs11_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i couldnt tell you me and my husband look at seperate and together i pefer that he looks on the internet than in real life
2006-06-27 01:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...no one trusts anyone....
2006-06-27 01:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋