my husband is looking at porn on our computer if he has the computer set up to clear his history on a daily basis, is there anyway to find this info out.
2006-06-26 18:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by pebbles68701 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all i have 2 children and i personal think is wrong for a man of his age to do this when he is marrried with a family!!
2006-06-26 18:17:44 · update #1
i'm not a prude bitches i ask for advice not for you to slam
2006-06-26 18:18:53 · update #2
let me add more for those of you who are not listening to me or understanding me....when your husband is suppose to be at working at a certain time supporting his family and he isn't b\c his naked *** is glued to the computer chair ALL ******* MORNING while me his wife is dropping kids off at daycare and working my *** off at work. i find this redicules. not to mention that its wrong, it gross,he is married for godsakes. PORN should be illegaly anyways and if that makes me a prude then i guess maybe i am
2006-06-26 18:26:07 · update #3
its the fact that he looks at period. yes it really bothers me that he looks at it and gets turned on and then wants to be lovey dovey with me. that makes me angry
2006-06-26 18:46:16 · update #4
There are several programs out there...and I have used a few on investigations that I have done....and some are better then others, but I would rather not put the link on here. You can message me on yahoo or send me a message and I will give you a link to the website.
2006-06-26 18:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by debbienws 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is coming from a teen girls prospective. I dont really know what its like to be married but I've had a bf for about a year and 2 months now...and personally I think its fun to look at porn with him ..no we dont do anything I swear lol waiting till i'm 18 I'm not reallly into the whole wait till marriage thing tho I do respect those who are. Maybe you should talk to him about it instead of looking for it. Sometimes...a persons just got to get off by themselves....plus guys sex drives is like 10 times more then a womans...so he might need to well take care of business more often. If he isn't going to work. or spends more then 4 to 5 hours on the pc, thats when He should be yelled at why dont you watch it with him maybe he wants attention, or ask him why he watches it so much. I know for a fact that my parents have some pornography, and I dont mind it being in the house..I mean its not like its sprawlled on the floor. its just about porportions and the appropriate time...I hope I helped a bit....but I can tottally understand if he is tottaly OBSESSED. that would be a diffrent story. *hugss* hope I helped some. ~Kimmykat IM me if you want to talk SakuraCat3 its on yahoo
2006-06-27 02:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by sakuracat3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own threshold and expectations of behavior in a marriage. I wouldn't be concerned, so long as it's not an every day thing. I've watched it with my ex. No big deal.
Would you be just as upset if he studied a national geographic website in the morning while you're off taking the kids and going to work? (i.e. that he's not pulling his weight in the relationship) or is it that he gets turned on by watching the porn that's bothering you? That aspect is not entirely clear from your question.
2006-06-27 01:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take charge of your FAMILY'S computer for the sake of the kids. Porn is incredibly harmful for children. More importantly I think you need to take charge of your life. Girl, we need to talk! If you love your husband, good. Does he love you? Porn does not mean he doesn't love you, it means he has issues.
Yes, you can tell if he has been looking at stuff and my sister could help you with that. She has had to deal with this a lot longer than I did and on a much grander scale.
You guys are most likely going to need to get counseling though. It is not good for him to be looking at porn, it is not good for you, your family or the poor men and women involved in teh production. Good Luck.
2006-06-27 01:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by allibris_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This sure as heck sounds like Adult Content to me, I cant believe that everyone here hasnt been flagged by the Puritan Squad yet for just looking at this flagrant example of Adult Content! Would love to weigh in as well, but don't want to be sent to the Internet equivalent of Bejing by the good comrades at Yahoo...
2006-06-27 01:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the start menu, click on search, click on files and enter index.dat. The you click the option to choose your own program to open this file, click on notepad and click on open. It will bring up a bunch of letters and symbols that don't make sense, but sift through this...go over and down...through each index.dat file, and you will find all the sites and cookies that he has deleted. Good luck.
2006-06-27 11:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn websites in the background when he's surfing on the internet. get netdog : http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-06-27 10:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit crying and being such a prude. Why don't you watch it with him. I hope he divorces you cause he deserves someone better than you. Spy.
2006-06-27 01:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see there is no as such harm in seeing porn movies.... he is not having sex with someone else.... anyways he is going to try all those things to you itself...
Give him some space... don't be a spy on him or else, there is a danger to your relationship... trust me.... you have to give space......
2006-06-27 01:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Let him have his provacy you snoop.
2006-06-27 01:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋