2006-06-26 17:57:41 · 12 answers · asked by RacerXXX S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-06-26 19:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness.. been there, done that... except for the money problems. Divorce is emotionally devastating. There may be some comfort in the fact that other people have gone through the same thing and came out alright in the end.
If you have kids, think about how much they need you. If you don't, consider that you are an independent person in your own right. Your self-worth should not be predicated on a marriage. Do something that you haven't done before (start a business, learn a language, try a new sport, etc.) Discover new things about yourself. You have to refocus your energy away from the problems onto something else. Take a second job, if that's what it takes to keep your mind occupied. In time, it'll get better. Just be patient.
2006-06-26 18:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never realized how painful emotionally a divorce is on a person. Even though I was the one that left. To me it is a loss worse than a death. The money problems are huge and the emotional toll is huge too. How to get out of bed? Find a reason - any reason. Plan ahead to have a reason why you need to. Get a counseling or medication if you need to. Anything to get past the pain. Eventually you will let go and start a fresh new life. Learn to live with less money and choose a new partner wisely.
You will surrive. Hang in there
2006-06-26 18:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i am going through the exact same thing now...i was married for 2 years and this week would have made 3. i am 23 yoa and alone. it takes a while. i got to where all i wanted to do was sleep and cry so i went to my doctor and was put on meds. it helped some but then you still have the financial issue which is also depressing so with it all together it is hard to get out of bed. i feel like when i am asleep is the only time that i can get away from it all and not hurt. the one thing i have learned to do is to pray and take it one day at a time. i also know that you have to have someone to talk to. i have my best friend who has helped me through it all. when it starts hurting, just pray.
oh yeah and i started listening to rap music so that i never have to hear the sad songs..
2006-06-26 18:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by lelamae939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey how are you doin? I pray well and strengthen by the most High God... The answer I would refer to your question would be gettin out the bed by know who God is in your life at this very point... Him being you morning star, your strength and your source that you He only can provide when man has failed you at heart and hand. Wake up praying and praising God for who He is and Has brought from and know where you could of been.. He kept you in your right mind and you still able to do everything on your own...He knows everything and hears your cry and concern... But now come stability and balance... Leaning and depending on God like never before if you know never ran to Him with open arms before now would be the time...Change you preception and mind set.. Bring postive into your life, Speaking to those things as thought they were but as knowing arent. The joy of Lord is your strength and strengthens you in your weekest moments.. Read Psalm 46 and Ecclesiastes 3...
Be strong and encourage and know that is only to make you strong.. God a situation to bring about a revelation ....not about you bout Him and for you be a blessing to someone else that maybe going throught something like or worse and just remember someone always has it worse than you.. Your Bless and don't even know and Please know that God loves you more than you will ever know... Also read James 1......
Your life is in His Hands
please do reply back and let me know if I answered your question anyway...yoyo645@yahoo.com
2006-06-26 18:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by yoyo645 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is another day for you to go out there and say LOOK WORLD I AM STILL HERE........I am thankful for everyday I wake up because after my heart attack I was afraid and I had panic attacks but I got past that........
Your divorce is over right....so get on with your life ,,,don't dwell on the bad things , get out there and look for the good things ..Your problems will go away ...just don't sit and think about them...Life is too short ...Get out and do something...HELP someone else so you quit thinking about yourself..There are alot of people who are alot worse off than you............
2006-06-26 18:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I have 2 wonderul kids I have to take care of and provide for. I went through divorce, bankruptcy, and depression. It was a slow process, but my life gets better and better every day. You just take one day at a time!
2006-06-26 18:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by southernlisa37 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gets some anti-depressants. Talk to a counselor about your depression and give it time. Things will get better, your life has great things in store for you.
2006-06-26 19:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by bobo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it a day at a time. Your situation is not unique. It will get better!
2006-06-27 03:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a councelor
2006-06-26 18:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by friendly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hobby and relive ure younger days for awhile
2006-06-26 18:01:02 · answer #11 · answered by wtf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋