..its usually right after i put the condom on...and im taking my pants all the way off...any suggestions?!
2006-06-26 17:34:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
anyone else have this problem, is it normal!?
2006-06-26 17:38:04 · update #1
It has only happened with two girls, one was awhile ago, then i had another one and it was fine, now i am with this girl now, and it happened again, and i am just wondering why? I am not taking any medications or anything...
2006-06-26 17:41:03 · update #2
Oh, and any otehr time im fine, like if i get horny ill keep an erection for a long time and not even be doing anything to it...
2006-06-26 17:42:04 · update #3
&& i dont have high blood pressure...if that helps.
2006-06-28 04:03:00 · update #4
It is probably the latex smell of the condom. Try wearing it in the dark like at night so you can stimulate yourself without she looking. I guess you masturbate a lot, try reduce that. There some lubricants that can also help you maintain erection. You may use vibrating rings (she'll like it). The natural way is to let her put it on for you while she fondles you.
2006-07-10 12:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ibro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be nerves, or it could be that you are not really into the sex or the girl, but it is most likely that the condom is killing your sensitivity. MANY dudes have a hard time staying hard when they have a condom on. Try not putting the condom on until you are ready to penetratte, or try having your partner put it on for you. This could be a real turn on and keep you super hard. You could also try what is called a "c-ck ring" It is a matal or plastic ring or band that you can buy at any adult products store that puts more pressure on your penis and keeps the blood flowing to your penis. Hope this helps.
2006-07-10 08:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by PhillyBob1963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a normal thing...It does happen to some or maybe most guys....When your in the middle of 4 play and your about to have physical sex...You take a brief moment and grab that condemn...In between that...your mind can sometimes start to wonder else where and your focus is off...When your body starts to relax...that blood that has build up your dick erection will slowly ease on down and your dick will start to get soft....You have to stay focus or be really horny to keep an erection....
Here's my opinion....When your dick is hard...grab the condem...keep on with your 4 play until blood rise up in your dick for an erection...Once it's hard and wait till its really hard...slide on the glove and go for the love....
Peace,
J.Dallas
2006-07-10 10:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by jdallas6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem only once when I was really,really drunk about 15 years ago.
Take christina C's advice & get your girlfriend 2 undress u & put the condom on.
I dont use condoms as I'm in a faithful relationship but both my girlfriend undress each other & we both get turned on everytime.
2006-07-10 16:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by ozzzybloke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably gay...a good way to find out is try to picture your dad, or brother naked while you are trying to stay arroused, this should work for you, and find a nice guy to work thru your problems with, touching, talking, and carressing another male is just what the doctor orders for you, before you know it you will be erect and ready to recieve love....females are not for you...find a nice guy, settle down and buy some toys to experiment with...the bigger the better...as you are bent over the public toilet that is in your future...you can thank Dr. Knowsurgay....no charge.
2006-06-26 17:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is common and the fault lies with putting on the condom...it takes away a lot of the intensity of the moment....Imagine a summit meeting with the crisis of the world on hand and one of the leaders says 'Wait I have to go pee.'. It happens to me and others that that break in intimate foreplay, causes us to soften. Some experts suggest making it part of the foreplay by having your partner put on the condom....It never worked for me but as you know unprotected sex is stupid unless you are with a permanent partner.
2006-07-08 07:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress will cause that, relax don't build the moment up so much. Slow down and enjoy the moment, then work you way in to it. Perhaps have them suck on it first.
2006-07-08 16:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sounds like erecteral dusfunction. i'm sure it happens to all guys, not that i should know. i'm a good girl ^.^ you just need to relax and try to get as horny as possible. also try warming message, or something like that. good luck, my freind. everyone needs sex and you shant be deprived of it!
2006-07-10 09:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cirque Du Freak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your name is James so you might be the guy that is with my ex-wife. Dont worrie dude the f-ckin im getting aint worth the f-cking i got!!! If i had to face her again i'd go limp to
2006-07-10 16:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by rocketman4551 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drink if your old enough a fift of segrems jin and juice with ginsing in itor wild irish rose with ginsing and a 24 ounce of molson enjoy
2006-06-26 17:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋