I do that because i get scared that i'm going to have a baby, an i don't want to have a baby because i have goals and life and having a baby early is not one of them.But sometimes i do be wanting to say yes.
2006-06-26 17:30:47 · 14 answers · asked by lil_poohpy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and for the people who is saying i did want to say yes, i do be wanting to say to this one boy but i don't i like him so much.
2006-06-26 17:45:50 · update #1
Is there a reason birth control isnt part of this equation......
2006-06-26 17:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by bumbleleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong to play mind games with "dudes". Sex is not something to be taken so unseriously...having sex can result in life changes that you may not be ready for (i.e. babies, sexually transmitted disease, etc.)....if, and it sounds like you do, you have soo many things you want to accomplish, leave the sex alone, or at least protect yourself to the inth degree if you just have to have sex....I don't know how old you are but, if you are as young as you sound, leave the sex....you have plenty of time to find a life partner and have all the sex you want....you have one chance to be young and achieve all the goals that you have set for yourself...make good choices and good luck.
2006-06-27 00:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by buggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you're on the right path as far as you're goals, but you don't have to be a tease or do anything you don't want too! guys don't think like us at the time they want sex, they will say anything and do anything to get you to do it! so stay strong you have a good head on your shoulder, stay focus on your dreams and don't let no boy or man stop you from following through with your goals, just be truthful with these guys and they will respect you in the long run, at the end of the day that's all a woman want is her respect and if she's lost it, then she will feel worthless? be strong, and if you do decide to have sex, let it be because you're in love with this guy and he's the only one you want to spend the rest of your life with? see your way out of this temptation
2006-06-27 00:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by ti'lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't play with fire. I can understand dating and or hanging out with guys but make sure you always use your head b/c you wouldn't want to be put in any dangerous situations. It's good to have goals but make sure you Always practice safe sex with birth control but to be honest I believe your during the right thing by not having sex.
AIDS IS WORST THAN A BABY ANY DAY!
2006-06-27 00:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by zayla2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I sort of used to do things like that when I was in middle school cuz I knew they wanted me and that I didn't want them. As I got older I discovered not only was it mean to them but a waste of time also. If you know you do not want to have sex them don't be scared to say so, you may be surprised at their reactions and the new kind of guy that tries to talk to you. Also, trying to play around with them you may start getting caught up yourself. You say you want it sometimes and talking to them one of them may be too much temptation than you can handle or you may just talk yourself into it. Be careful.
2006-06-27 00:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by babygemini261 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is better to wait. i think you are very smart for thinking about the consequences. Who cares if you mess with boys minds. besides i think they like the chase more than getting sex right away. Who wants a girls who gives up easier than counting to 3!? :) there are so many fun things to do with guys besides having sex. go out to dance and have fun while you are young. if you end up pregnant there is not much you can do afterward. so enjoy life while you are young to the fullest
2006-06-27 00:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by lauritalucky@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other ways to be intimate with eachother and to pleasure eachother without sex. Use your imagination- just try not to do anything involving semen near your body. Good luck!
2006-06-27 01:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by UrNightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because eventually there are going to want to take it further and they may think your sending them the wrong signals....it isn't right to play with theremind because the mind is very sensative and guys have fillin to they diserve the truth!
2006-06-27 00:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could but not too much because they might get too wrapped up and get the wrong idea. You neva know wha might happen cause he could end up forcing you if it gets that serious.
2006-06-27 00:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are better intelligent ways to accomplish this. But have fun anyway i guess.
:)
2006-06-27 00:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋