A woman who is tactless and insults you unwarrantedly all the time and then you say something back to her and she cries. This is not a child either. I'm talking about a 58 year old woman. What is this B***'s problem. What is a person thinking when they keep doing that.
2006-06-26 17:16:42 · 18 answers · asked by Blah Blah Blah 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
usually the people who dish out the most insulting comments are the ones trying to hide their own insecurities and inferiorities...so when someone comes back at them and they can't handle it they go from one extreme (being a jerk) to another (crying for no good reason)...
just be honest with them and let them know how you feel and if that doesn't work then avoid them like crazy...
2006-06-26 17:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by croatian_abomination 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She have, what in psychology's called, Superiority Complex. It is the manner of acting superior of others (being bitchy over them, etc.) just to be able to make them feel inferior and mask their own inferiority. You can talk to her an tell her (in agood manner) that all of us (humans) are naturally inferior. We are born imperfect. You should make her know that you yourself have insecurities but with that, you are avble to chanel it into sometyhing useful. This ussually does it. You should also apologize. remember that saying sorry is a brave thing, not a weak move.
If this desn't work, just try ignoring her. If ever she still nags on you or anything to that effect, consult the Human Resource Department of your company and voice out your concerns about her actions toward you and how it hinders a smooth working relationship. And they would be the one to fix everything.
Hope to be of Help!
2006-06-27 06:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by coolblueacid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a woman with incredibly low self esteem. She lashes out at others because it makes her feel better about herself, and when it comes back at her she can't take it. Stay far, far away.
2006-06-27 00:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by dmonstergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously this person has some borderline tendancies - she has such an instable sense of self, which she tries to improve by deriding others - but when they don't take her bullying, her fragility then causes her to break down.
2006-06-27 00:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is um.... sorry to say, CRAZY!! She probably doesn't realize what a ***** she is! Or maybe she has been a ***** to everyone her whole life and no one has been a ***** back. Shes probably a very unhappy and lonely person.
2006-06-27 00:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman has ISSUES. Kill her with kindness and either she will seek help, or otherwise disappear from contact with you.
2006-06-27 00:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by pink..elephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person need help... and they just want some attention... And to insult or cry.... gets peoples attention.... good or bad!
2006-06-27 00:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by JustWondrering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds emotionally unstable and possibly has a psychiatric disorder. You shouldn't take her behavior personally; it's not you, she is simply unstable. Avoid and ignore her if you can.
2006-06-27 00:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just tired of your crap. Maybe your abrasive personality has just worn her down to the ragged edge.
2006-06-28 03:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by tex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously disturbed, so be nice, avoid her if you can, and consider replies of kindness, even when she dishes out negative comments:)
2006-06-27 00:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋