how do you tell a boy your ready for sex and how do you know?

Answer 1

ok, it's little girlz like you that get's these boyz in trouble asking silly questions like this? why would you wanna have sex right now, you probably not old enough to even drive, but you wanna have sex, it's sad because kids like you make up our population of AIDS patients in the u.s, get to know someone before trying to let him have something that don't belongs to him? when you get older, no man will want someone who was a easy ****, you are calling you're self a hoe already?

Answer 2

First off, you need to make sure that you're ready to have sex. It is a big step and one you want to take with the RIGHT boy. You need to make sure that your body is ready for sex. Also, are you mature enough to handle the consequences of sex. There are things that need to be considered: STD's, pregnancy, etc.. And is your boyfriend (at least I hope it's your boyfriend) mature enough for sex. You need to be sure that if you do have sex with him he's not going to go around telling all his friends what went down. Ask him questions like how many girls he's been with and if he's ever been tested. If you can't talk openly about sex with him, then I wouldn't do it with him. Try to talk to your mother, sister, aunt, doctor, or other trusted person about this. They can help you more than anyone on here could. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

To tell them you should slowly ease yourself into a conversation about it and then tell him,

To know that you are really ready you should truly be able to say that you love and trust him and that he's not another crackhead trying to abuse that trust for some head.

Also some tips:
You can get pregnate your first time.
Don't rely just on birth control, they can't stop STDs.
Use a condom and make sure it is the right size.
If you use a lubricant make sure it is water based and don't use vasoline or any oil.
Flavored condoms should only be used for oral sex.
When applying a condom pinch the tip to leave space for semen.
Beware of STDs. They are not laughing matter because some of them have life long effects like brain damage if you dont get treated.
Talk to your man about his previous partners because when you have sex with someone you have sexxx with their partners and those partners partners.
And las of all,If you feel like backing out don't be afraid to say so.

Answer 4

Well here's how to tell if you are ready

1.) Do you have a plan of what you would do if you got knocked up and does he agree with the plan. As in you two talked about it
2.) Are you on birth controll?
3.) Are you willing to let your doctor look at your viginia and do a pap smear
4.) Have both of you been tested for STDs.
5.) Do you really trust him. I mean if it came down to you or him dying, getting hurt, losing a leg would he pick you being safe over him
6.) are you over the age of 17

If you anwser no/sorta/kinda/probably to any of the above question your not ready for sex

As for telling him you are ready just say it

Answer 5

I do not think you should ever be telling some boy/ your boyfriend you are ready for sex, cuz he's not your husband. If you have to ask other people, you are obviously not ready.

Answer 6

Invite him over to your house and tell him to bring a condom. If he runs away frightened, you know he's not ready. If he smiles, LET THE ACTION BEGIN!

Answer 7

girl how old r u, you shouldnt be ready for anything yet

Answer 8

If you have to ask, you are not ready yet. Don't rush it.

Answer 9

Here's how: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-7371253996117324045&q=CIA

Answer 10

NO SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!