2006-06-26 17:08:53 · 23 answers · asked by Nikki Brocato 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well i'm not sure what ur asking, but i would have to say, that yes u r normal. what happened was not ur fault, and i'm so sorry u had to go through something so terrible. i'm sure that everything ur feeling/thinking, is nothing different than what anyone else in ur shoes would be! i'm not sure if u contact the right authorities, maybe something can be done to help? also, even if not, i really think u should speak with someone who can help u with all the issues u r trying to deal with from it i.e, a counselor, psychologist, etc. good luck to u! ur very brave!
2006-06-26 17:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look all because you were forced to have sex doesn't mean that you aren't normal. You just have a little bit less fortune than the rest of the people out there. But all because you have had that happen to you does not make you not normal. You are just like every other person out there in the world you just got a little bit of a head start on the things of life unlike some people but that doesn't make you any different from anyone else in this world. And yes you are still normal.
2006-06-27 00:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are now but I know exactly where you are coming from. I was in the same place from age 4-13. There are many of us out there and way too many either don't or feel that they can't talk to someone about it. Talk to your mother if you feel comfortable with it, or someone else who can help you even if it happened years ago. That is rape and sexual abuse and if you are related to the person that is also incest. I went to the police and children's aide with the help of a really nice teacher's aide worker, I still talk to her regularly even now. Even if you don't know the person who raped you you should still talk to someone, it they don't listen to you, keep talking to people you trust until someone listens, you may not be able to charge this person, but more importantly now you can get help for yourself if you need it now on in the future. Write it all down, get it out in the open. It tore my family apart, so I guess we weren't all that strong anyway. My parents stood up for me and my sister knew that I was protecting her by not talking earlier, my aunts said not to tell my grandparents because it happened at their summer trailer and my aunt and uncle thought they wouldn't be able to go back there again. My grandparents found out and while everything went on the same, except the abuse, nothing was ever the same between the families. My relationship with my grandfather especially was even stronger afterwards. I see my cousins at family functions, but otherwise the less I see them the better.
2006-06-27 00:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when something like that happens to you, you abuse sex later in life, having it all the time because now it is something you can control whereas before it wasn't. I'd say you're normal[ish] given what you've gone through. But that doesn't mean its healthy or okay. Seek help if it's bothering you or those who care about you. Trust me, you've hurt enough from this, don't let it ruin your life any further.
2006-06-27 00:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by thisfleshavenged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are as normal as anybody else in this world. It is not your fault that someone did something so terrible to you. You are a smart, beautiful person with a lot of positive things to share with the world. Don't let the bad things others have done keep you from reaching your full potential.
2006-06-27 00:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no darling no one should be forced to have sex at any time and especially at 9 that person needs to be reported straight away but you are normal but ide say a little mixed up go and get help and talk to a councillor or some one you can trust
2006-06-27 00:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. 1 in 4 women have had some sort of sexual abuse or thing of that nature. If you have dealt with what has happened to you and are ready to live life to the fullest as far as I know you are right on track! If not, seek some sort of help or counseling to learn that what happened was not your fault and how you can move past that tragedy.
2006-06-27 00:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by babygemini261 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal. I do hope that you reported the rape. IF you didn't it is not to late to do so. You should talk to someone, get counseling, I hate saying that but sometimes it really is needed! Not because you aren't normal but to help you know when your mind & body are ready for relationships. GO SLOW! Take care~
2006-06-27 00:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by LaPineian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Baby...this is not normal. Does your Mother know about this? If it really happened and you are telling the truth you need to have some sort of therapy to help you deal with your problems. Talk to your Mom , sweetie. Talk to someone in authority.
2006-06-27 00:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesss you're normal theres no reason your not. and im very sorry about how u were forced to have sexual relations at a young age.
2006-06-27 00:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by † 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋