i met this guy through a friend and i called him on the weekend when i was drunk and found out that he was in the next street. i had never seen him before but we talked alot over the phone. i abused him and then he told me to get stuffed. i really like him and i cant stop thinkin bout him, have i hurt him or does he not like the look of me... i very rarely drink, was it a mistake?
2006-06-26 17:00:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You abused him? How?
2006-06-26 17:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by BabyFirefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the hell would you abuse him if you really like him? I don't care if you were drunk or not. Sorry, just being a little abusive.
Seriously, you probably confused him and made him mad. He thought you 2 had something going. Then "BAM" you start screaming at the man. Why don't you call and apologize? But don't be surprised if he acts like an *ss. It's a man thing. It may have also turned him away because he may not want to be with somebody who he thinks is a psycho. Just try, it can't hurt.
2006-06-27 00:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nagitar™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all you like is negativity and abuse. You slag some guy when you are drunk, and then he verbally abuses you and then you can't stop thinking about him? Honey, there isn't enough space here to tell you what is wrong with that. Stop drinking, and go and meet someone who treats you right. If the only thing that turns you on about a guy is when he tells you to get stuffed, well good luck with all that.
2006-06-27 00:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely it was a mistake on your part. You should write him a letter appologizing for your actions and words. Be sincere and if he is interested in you he will accept your appology. If not, then maybe he too sensitive. Most people know that drunkeness can bring out the bad side so maybe he needs to lighten up a little too.
2006-06-27 00:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by guy_in_n_metro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking and drugs are always a mistake but it's never too late to do something nice for him and apologize. it takes a real big person to do something nice for him and say you are real sorry about the other night and you'd like to make it up to him by helping with his homework or driving him home or anything that fits your situation. No matter what he does you will feel better about taking the higher road and won't have to be ockward around him anymore.
2006-06-27 00:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to drink to talk to someone. If you feel you need to drink before you talk, then you need professional help to overcome this. It sounds like you insulted him. You could call and write a note to him to apologize, but if the damage is done and he won't accept it, you have to learn from this and move on.
2006-06-27 00:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him cool off for a couple of days and call him and apologize and explain the situation. If he doesn't understand then leave him alone. What's the worst that can happen if you already think he doesn't like you?
2006-06-27 00:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by b_sampson98055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man doesn't like the way u look leave him the hell alone.U look beautiful for yourself not because i guy wants u to
2006-06-27 00:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he'd be thinking you are a nutter...lol explain to him what went on .. if he's worth it he'll talk to you again.
2006-06-27 00:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well first impression is often the last impression but keep trying
2006-06-27 00:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the seeds of a bad unhealthy relationship have been sown....let it die out and don't try to revive it any more.
2006-06-27 00:03:32 · answer #11 · answered by cheryl w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋