I have been faced with a hard decision and i feel that it is impossble to answer. I keep letting past events cloud my judgement. I try not to, but it always happens that way. Can someone explain to me how to get past this mistake?
2006-06-26 16:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by ash 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
its not my mistake...and yet it invovles me
2006-06-26 17:12:58 · update #1
mistakes will haunt people for either two reasons. 1 people are superficial or 2 if a person dwells in the past he will reflect that to other people and they will react to him accordingly. the key to life is to live without regrets. im not saying to be overimpulsive but you have to be able to be satisfied with yourself. in the end its gonna be you weho has to live with the decisions you made so you might as well make em good.
2006-06-26 17:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jacob F 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes if the mistake is bad enough where you can't look past it even when your really trying, maybe they shouldn't be looked past. Maybe the mistake should help you make your decision.
But it is hard to answer the question without knowing the situation just my opinion for what I see coming from the question. Could be looked at thousands of ways.
2006-06-27 00:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know, but I have a bad one that keeps haunting me and gets brought up about every day. I just keep telling myself it's in the past and nothing I can do about it, except not doing it again. I don't know what your mistake was, but with mine, I wrote it down to "face it" then I burned it to "let it go". It's supposed to help somehow, maybe it will work for you.
2006-06-27 00:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seems that you need to rid yourself of this experience, if you are religious, ask god to forgive you, and he will. If not and you would like to be, search the sinners prayer online and get started. You must get over this issue, and soon, so you dont make any bad decisions because of it... Want some more guidance, IM Tarynpaige77
2006-06-27 00:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Taryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to learn a lesson from your past behavior, maybe you are being too hard on yourself.
Have you considered counseling?
2006-06-27 00:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by pink..elephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I struggle with this one too. It seems some mistakes follow me around.
2006-06-27 00:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about self respect - this is where your focus needs to be, and the rest will fall into place.
2006-06-27 00:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by jonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u tried killing yourself?
2006-06-27 00:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋