What do you think about making out with your cousin??? I don't mean your 2nd or 3rd cousin either but yours first!!! I am now 30 years old but when i was about 16 me and my 1st cousin use to fool around a little,never actually had sex but came really close and to this day i still think about him all the time and have feelings for him!!!!Is this normal or am i insane!!!!!I haven't seen or heard from him in years but often wonders what it would be like to actually sleep with him!!!!!What should i do???
2006-06-26 16:21:20 · 14 answers · asked by Baybee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hahaha i kiss my cousins =) dnt feel bad
call him?
2006-06-26 16:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, that's not normal. That's definitely bad. What if you two actually had sex, and you got pregnant? You're baby would have been retarded. And you say you're 30 years old? You're too old to be thinking about him that way. Until you said that you were still thinking about him I thought that you were over him! What you should do is get a man and keep your mind off nasty stuff like that. What were you doing making out with your cousin anyways? A FIRST cousin at that?
2006-06-26 16:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Brittanie M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having any type of sexual/romantic relationship with a family member isn't good. Hooking up with your first cousin is legal incest. Since you still have feelings for him and you don't see whats wrong with it - you should really get into counseling. When things like this happen in a family it often will happen to your children in one way or another. Get into counseling and work through this.
2006-06-26 16:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong for you to have feelings for your cousin. It may not be accepted in our society,but if you both love each other then your love can be just as true as any relationship can be . However, you've gotta think about the obstacles and difficulties you will have to face, such as acceptance from your family, friends, the way you could be nagged and emotionally abused to get out of the relationship, and how you may not have support from anyone but your boyfriend; but if you both have a strong relationship and love for each other, it can work out.
2006-06-30 08:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by anthony0043 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forbidden fruit is always the sweetest. Yes, it is normal to be attracted to someone, reguardless of their connection to you, but probably not wise to follow up on your thoughts. If you really want to forget him, picture him having put on 150 lbs and bald, that will probably kill your interest.
2006-06-26 16:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he's still single and then research state laws. There are some places where it's completely legal. If he's interested, date him and proceed.
2006-06-26 16:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally wrong. Don't do anything with family. You might have been young then but now you are old enough to know how wrong it is. Please don't get involved with your cousin.
2006-06-26 16:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not sleep with him! I repeat do not! that is just sick and if you do you could regret it for the rest of your life, but it's your life iam only giving you my advice.
Many people sleep with there cousins it's not natual please for your own sake don't.
I hope you make the right choice.
2006-06-26 16:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by tamilia4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually experimenting is the little kids , you messed with fire, try to bury it in the past and move on.
2006-06-26 16:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should call him and see what he's been up to. i never kissed any of my cousins but there was one cousin i should have kissed. he was soo cute
2006-06-26 16:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl... , he's family.. you don't sleep with a member of the family.. and you have to be careful not bring your feelings overboard.. coz you might go into incest. and that's bad. it's a sin...
2006-06-26 16:29:57 · answer #11 · answered by d&r08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋