okay there is this guy i am close friends i never thought this would happen but ever since school ended i havent seen him so i am starting to miss him a lot and now i think i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him. i dont know what to do. i keep having these passionate thoughts about him. please help me.
2006-06-26 16:02:22 · 22 answers · asked by Ali's Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
aww, i no how u feel. but dont b a stalker like me, cuz wut i did made him hate me. just sum how find out his sn, and let him no u like him. for sum reason, its a whole lot easier online than it is face to face!!
2006-06-26 16:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Catherine C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to start feeling some emotions towards guy friends if you've been friends for a long time. If you want, you can ask him out, or you can let your passion simmer and do nothing about it. It's worth a shot! But if you start dating him and it feels funny or wrong, break up with him before a lot of damage is done.
2006-06-26 16:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have overplayed your imagination. You need to get a grip and think about where this could lead if this guy only wants what most guys want. If he can't be a friend first, there is no way you should ever think about becoming close in any way. If you run after him, he might respond but I doubt you will have anything more than a midnight run. You are more valuable than that.
2006-06-26 16:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by rsc7474 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as a friend. I've found that the one's I felt that feeling for, and then went for it, I ruined the friendship for a fling that was not meant to be. Could mean that you're just missing the friendship and him being around. Give it a little time before you make a move... Good luck tho!
2006-06-26 16:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dani Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absense makes the heart grow fonder. Thats what they say and you are living proof that is true. I bet that he feels the same way. Usually thats the case- otherwise you'd probably not have those feelings. If he does feel the same, he will find you! I'm sure he either has your umber, e-mail address, or knows some that knows someone...
2006-06-26 16:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out his situation...girlfriend, single? then if he is single, give him a call or drop him an email and strike up some conversation. Feel him out and maybe even ask him to coffee or movie or something simple to start...that way you can leave the ball in his court and give him an opportunity to pursue you....good luck!
2006-06-26 16:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by w_holyfield 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have his number?
If you do you should call him and set up a time so you could hang out and try to see if he feels the same way.
If you think he likes you then drop some hints but don't be too obvious because you wouldn't want to ruin your friendship.
2006-06-26 16:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang grl u do have a phone, yes? What Is Wrong wit you call him. pick it up, go on, dial Now ur on the right track.....Bet ur feelin better huh?
2006-06-26 16:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Angel B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So on it goes.......This is not unusual.......It happens to many. Let him know how you feel. Don't let it go by, you might lose your chance, you'll never know it you don't pursue it. If you lose, so what can you do. If you sit and wait, you lose as well. Good luck....
2006-06-26 16:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time n catch up with someone else who is good enough n currently with you
acc to me he had forgotten you else he would hav contat you
get some good hunk in play n forget about old days
2006-06-26 16:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by vibhuti j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL GIRL IF YOU KEEP THINKING ABOUT HIM LIKE I KEEP THINKING ABOUT THE GUY I LIKE THEN I WOULD SAY THE NEXT TIME YOU SEE HIM TELL HIM THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP AND THEN TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL HE WILL LIKE THAT YOU ARE BEING BOLD!! TRUST ME ON THIS ONE!!!
2006-06-26 16:07:32 · answer #11 · answered by allie_4406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋