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I have learned my lesson. I am not mature enough to have a child

2006-06-26 15:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by Mariana 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Newborn & Baby

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3 hours ago u asked if u should have sex with derrick, then in a miracle u were preg to him, maybe him at least, but someone, and now ur miscarrying? attention seeking? maybe u should call ur dad, girls that attention seek often dont have great relationships with their dads. or if ur mom didnt tell u who he was call kids help line or ur mom and get attention in a positive way, not by wasting time on here!

2006-06-26 16:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bella Know All 2 · 0 0

Adoption! Come on, if you aren't ready you will only mess this kid up. I was 26 and ready and it is still hard. This is another human being and to hope the pregnancy will terminate is not healthy. You need to adopt this baby out to someone who wants a baby and cannot have one. I know adoption is hard but if you could choose between raising this unwanted baby and having it go nowhere in life or adopting this baby out to give it a chance for a good life...what would be the best decision?

Whether or not you like it, this is a little life that feels pain and once he/she is born they can feel unwanted even though they are new to the world.

Don't be selfish and think of the baby.

You are hoping for a miscarriage and I am hoping you are inevitably infertile. Even someone who isn't ready shouldn't hope for a miscarriage.

2006-06-27 02:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0 0

Well now is a fine time to learn your lesson. If you are pregnant, maybe a miscarriage is best. But in case you aren't losing your child, you will have to step up to the plate. Either you take your responsibility or you can put your baby up for adoption. There are many people out there in the world who would love to have a child. I sure hope you really have learned your lesson. You know what causes pregnancy.....so please be careful. If you are lucky, pregnant is the worst you will get. Best wishes!

2006-06-26 23:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by outlawsister1973 3 · 0 0

That lesson isn't over yet for you. You don't get to make a "mistake" like that and hope for a miscarriage and walk away.

This will be with you for your entire life and the choices you make from this day on, the decisions you make should ALL be made AFTER you think about being a mother to a child at your age, after you think about the responsibility, changes and sacrifice that goes with being a mother and AFTER you think about all the women who ARE old enough to be a mother, who can't conceive and who's hearts broke reading that you 'hope it's a miscarriage.'

2006-06-27 00:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hey There-Don't be scared. What ever happens, it's going to be OK. Have you taken a pregnancy test yet? You can do that without even going to the doctor. Try to make sure that you have someone that you trust and feel comfortable with to go with you. Remember-whatever happens, it's going to be OK.

2006-06-26 23:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by mom 4 · 0 0

why would u want it to be a miscarriage that isnt right. it sounds like u need to grow up first anyway i guess. i hope u have truly learned ur lesson and not have sex anymore until u are married.

2006-06-26 23:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by army_wife_9 4 · 0 0

you should of thought about that little innocent life before you opened up your legs yeah I can tell you are not ready for a child you cant even spell right

2006-06-26 23:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by sony93931 4 · 0 0

If I were you, I would be much more concerned with passing a sixth grade spelling/grammer test than childbearing.

2006-06-26 23:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by junebug 3 · 0 0

yes if i were you i would be scared .they say the best way to learn a lesson is the hard way. good luck to you

2006-06-26 23:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ur a liar! earlier u said u had a kid! how did get pregnant again in what the hour that u posted this! ur weird!

2006-06-26 23:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie 1 · 0 0

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