Life is so utterly frustrating.
2006-06-26 15:53:59 · 35 answers · asked by spotty 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
When you feel like this, you are depressed. I used to suffer from depression and I felt like that most of the times. And wanting to disappear and leaving everything and everyone behind, made me feel even more frustrated and lonely.
Your life is not fulfilled and you are not understood by others. My best advice to you is to realise that you must take responsibillity for your own fulfilments in life. Start small, decide on something exciting to do and absolutely force yourself to do it. Don't rely on others to join you or help you, because then you will never get there! And don't rely on others to understand you, understand yourself and believe in yourself. Also start small, find one and only one thing about yourself that you feel proud of and start focussing on that. Just for awhile, until it sinks in. Then find another good feature or deed of excellence to focus on.
Soon you will realise that the irritating people in your life don't irritate you anymore and that the bad circumstances in your life is bearable, because you have purpose and reason to carry on. And you won't believe it, but as things start to fall in place and you start to make peace with yourself, the bad things in your life will get sorted out. You'll have slowly but surely more and more energy to be stronger and be more positive! This is a promise! It worked for me!!
2006-06-26 16:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbeam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend you to read a book by Rick Warren, "The Purpose Driven Life"
I am deeply saddened by your statement, and suddenly without words. So I will borrow some from this book.
You are not an acciden. Even before the universe was created, God had you in mind, and He planned you for His purposes. These purposes will extend far beyond the few years you will spend on earth. You were made to last forever.
I can tell you that do not try to discover the meaning and purpose of your life by looking within yourself, that is the wrong place to look for. You must start with God, your Creator, and His reasons for creating you, because knowing God's purpose for creating you will reduce stress, focus your energy, simplify your decisions, give meaning to your life, and, most important to prepare you for eternity.
Ephesians 1:11...read it.
Colossians 1:16
Isaiah 44:2a
Bringing enjoyment for God, living for His pleasure, is the first purpose of your life.When you fully understad this truth, you will never again have a problem with feeling insignificant.He wants you to enjoy life, not just endure it. Bringing pleasure to God is called "worship". Worhip is a lifestyle. God's heart is not touched by the tradition in worship, but by passion and commitment.Worship is not a part of life, it is your life.
You are formed for God's family. Life is meant to be shared. God has purpose behind every problem. There is always a way out! You were put on earth to make a contribution. Only you can be you. And God deserves your best. God loves to use weak people. Everybody has weakness. Living on purpose is the only way to live. Everything else is only existing.
God loves you...find your purpose.
2006-06-26 16:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by SeeTheLight 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, what's new? Life's never fair, deal with it. But, seriously if our life was all roses, champagne & caviar, it'll be shallow & dull (though for some it's a dream come true)
Try to look at the bright side of life. Put all that negative energy into good use. Look at it as a motivational factor to drive you to be better.
Often you'll be surprise that the universe works in mysterious ways. You'd find your answers when you least expect it.
Hope this helped.
2006-06-26 16:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes life is hard but you have to take the good with the bad that whats the world is like running away will not solve your problems. some times it seems that only bad things are only happening to you and the rest of the seems to be blessed but thats not really whats happening. sometimes it seems living away from everyone would make your world alot less stressful but everyone has stress and no matter where you go your gonna have it too. but i can definately understand where your coming from hang in there it will be ok , be strong and take life the way it is and only try to make your life in it easier,
2006-06-26 16:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since thats not a realistic option in a frustrating environment......do what I did a long time ago....just clean house and eliminate the negative people from your life. Youll be happier. Just stop returning their calls, going out with them, etc. and life will get better. The only person you should try to please is you.
2006-06-26 16:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by AstonishingAries<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I almost did once. Me and a friend were traveling to New York to pick up an engine for my car and we almost just kept the money and went for California. Would have been interesting.
2006-06-26 15:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly speaking YES I had.At that point of time I was upset by the circumstances,I felt nothing is working in my direction.But inspite of this I continued my struggle had to shed some of my beliefs had to sacrifice some of my ego,and now I am happy.
2006-06-26 15:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by suchsi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop and think do u really wanna disapear wit out experincing life and livin it 2 the fullest i mean go sit sumwhere and just think 4 a while lif aint dat bad cus i thought the same thang but just think bout it b 4 u wish bout it
2006-06-26 15:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2006-06-26 15:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by MOVING 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time.
2006-06-26 15:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋