Well lets see I left my abuser bf, now staying with a guy friend who is freakin me out he is so gross, he comes in my room when he wakes up with just his shorts on and just sits there and tries to make pointless conversation. HELP. I moved from my home town to another state, bf assaulted me twice in two weeks, now I am with Mr. GROSSSSS. should I just pack it up and go home, or stay down here and get an apartment blah blah blah. I ready to get the hell out of here
2006-06-26 15:50:50 · 26 answers · asked by ms.mary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get out, you shouldnt be living with anyone but family right now
2006-06-26 15:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why you left home, are there issues you were trying to get away from? Leaving an abusive bf is the first step, but is staying with this guy your only other choice? Sometimes you just have to stick it out until you get through your current situation, but that shouldn't mean you gotta stay where you aren't happy. If this has turned out wrong, go back to the last place you went right and start again from there. Always be true to yourself and what's best for you in the long run.
2006-06-26 16:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by awesome_possum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your options as I see it are this:
1. Go home and get an apt.
2. Stay in the town you are in and get an apt.
3. If you have family that has room, stay with them temp until you can get your own apt.
4. Stay where you are and set some ground rules for continuing to remain living there. People need privacy, if he is not willing or able to give you that, get out now!
Stay away from the boyfriend, get a PFA (protection from abuse) order so he can't come near you...and if he does you Better press the charges against him. Otherwise he will continue to do so until something really bad happens. Get out of the place you are now, you are not happy. You need to stand on your own 2 feet for a while, don't fall into another relationship until you have built one with YOURSELF. You don't have to rely on anybody but yourself, and when that has happened, then go look for another man. Be safe and I wish you good luck!!
2006-06-26 16:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by oman396 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, sorry to hear your situation, hope things get better for you..well definetly dont stay with the guy you are with now...if you dont feel comfortable and he gives me the impression he sort of wants to do the same thing..just hearing about him, i would move back with your folks for a while or stay with a girl friend, stay away from the guys for a while, you need to just relax and know your safe around to where you can just not worry, only if you want to get an apt..i reccomend being with someone though, you never know if he could come back...hope this helps
2006-06-26 15:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by allison d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if there arent any other places for you to go and things just arent going for you there then dont you think you know the answer. you should go home and restart with a fresh begining oh and did you call the cops on your ex if not then do so or he'll do to others what he did to you and worst
and if you dont want to go home then why not ask this guy to mind your privacy in the morning or something
2006-06-26 15:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a place you know you are safe and feel comfortable. If you feel like going home, then do so and start over.. Don't ever let anyone assault or abuse you in any way.
2006-06-26 16:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your gross roommate adn tell him what bothers you and yes look for a new place to live dont go home if you think you willo run back to your abusive bf.
2006-06-26 15:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by CincyGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, if you can afford it, then GET OUT!!
This guy, obviously thinks, that since you arent with your boyfriend and living in "his" apartment, that he has "rights" over you now, for sex!
If you cant afford it, then pack what few things you have and get out of Dodge, and skeedaddle home, where your support group is.
Your Mom & Dad & siblings will be your best effort to get over some one, and help you out in many ways.
My suggestion is get to a church, and get involved, in it, that way, THEY can be your best support group, and they wont question you, and will be willing to help you in any way possible.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-26 15:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move in with some family, especailly after coming out of an abusive relationship you dont want to be staying with someone who you think is "gross" best of luck in future relationships, also dont forget not all men are a$$holes
2006-06-26 15:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by bigbob33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the ? I asked myself, I got the wrong answer however & put myself through 2 long years of HELL!
My advice = GET OUT !
2006-06-26 16:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋