She wants to dance, but she feels she cant. She begins to stiff up and giggle profusly and simply refuse to try.
2006-06-26 15:20:54 · 13 answers · asked by Derek D 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm like that too. and theres only one thing that can make me dance. ALCOHOL.
2006-06-26 15:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest starting off in your living room. Let her get over the giggling...it will get old eventually. You could also go to a place that's 'off the beaten path'. A place where you usually do not go and are sure you will not run into people you know. If the whole dancing thing is important to you. You should also let her know how serious it is to you and that she should try harder for YOU.
Alcohol also helps!
2006-06-26 15:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Veccster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should take some beginning lessons without you. The teacher should approach the lesson in a mechanical manner. Break it down biomechanically. Not the touchy feeley "shake your booty" routine. When she 's rid of the jits, join her!
2006-06-26 15:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Tommystune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont push her. Start with slowdancing and when your dancing with her tell her shes doing great and shes beautiful and things like that and make her feel good and she will want to dance with you more.
2006-06-26 15:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by ready4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something slow and work up, lead her in the dance, that's YOUR job. Make her look good, like she knows what she's doing, that is also your job.
Good Luck
2006-06-26 15:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by pinkstealth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guide her along by using your hands to move her shoulders, hips, where-ever you step she will follow. But be gentle, she's not a doll. Trust me, she'll feel safer with you holding her and touching her. Letting you guide at first will help her get in the rhythm and loosen up.
2006-06-26 15:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's stiff, she's better off not dancing. And remember, a girl who can't dance is whack in the sack also.
2006-06-26 15:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she knows how imortant dance is to you and teach her how to dance she probably is afraid of making a fool of her self.
2006-06-26 15:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go take a dance class together so she'll feel more comfortable
2006-06-26 15:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally its the guy who is afraid to dance.
2006-06-26 15:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol the quickest remedy.
2006-06-26 16:01:43 · answer #11 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋