2006-06-26 15:08:15 · 16 answers · asked by rp804110 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't be sad..............2 out of 3 aint bad!!!
2006-06-26 18:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by wickedwitch_76 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Firstly if you feel this way for someone then you are "wanting" them for the wrong reasons-Whether this is just for a brief sexual relationship or otherwise. I think you are in touch with your feelings and emotions though and at least you know what you want out of a relationship-even if you are beig brutally honest.
Secondly, i dont think that you can say that you could "never love someone". You never know until you get to know that person, and this statement in itself suggests that you are a little pessimistic towards relationships-or you maybe scared of getting hurt if you fall in love with someone-s your attitude is to never let them get too close?
You need to open up with her and talk with her openly about what you are feeling-if you are close. You must also be wary not to give her the wrong impression or you lead her on-as if you say that you are not capable of loving this person, then she will be the one to get hurt.
You cannot have a psyical relationship with someone (or a relationship of anykind!) without getting emotionally involved or at the very least caring for someone. You need to think about your feelings and why you think you are incapable of loving this person? Perhaps you are confused as to what love is?
You say that you want her and need her. The wanting aspect of this appears to be lust, but the needing her seems to be something deeper. So perhaps you care for her much more than you are aware of consciously.
I would give it time and patience and see if you begin to love her. Wanting and needing someone so badly is the first symptom of caring or loving for someone deeply.
I hope this helps! Good luck xx
2006-06-26 22:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose if you want her and need her you might fall in Love with her but if you know for sure thats not going to happen then leave her alone
2006-06-26 22:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are never going to love her move on, as if you pursue this relationship she will not get the (love) that she puts into it,
and you would not want someone doing this to you.
2006-06-27 02:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends....how does she feel? If you think she's going to fall in love, then leave her and let her find someone who will love her. If you are just a casual relationship to her then no harm, no foul.
2006-06-26 22:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If you will never love her she doesn't deserve to be with someone who isn't going to give themselves to her 100%. Don't be selfish and be with her just for your own personal agenda.
2006-06-26 22:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, but be gentle. She probably knows that you want her and need her, but she doesn't know you won't love her and don't want a committed relationship.
If she is agreeable to these terms...and I would be surprised, at least she can say that you were honest with her.
2006-06-26 22:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by dixie_til_i_die 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spare her the misery of knowing you will never love her. you will find someone else just as easy to "need." you really don't need this girl if you don't love her.
2006-06-26 22:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by wright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, Id probably recommend seperating so she can be happy with someone who will love her. You can always be friends.
2006-06-26 22:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well thats a strange situation but why do u need her when u dont love her
2006-06-26 22:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO her a favor and leave her so she can find someone who WILL love her!
2006-06-26 22:10:33 · answer #11 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋