ok im in this situation with my x. ii still love him and i think he still loves me and i want to get back with him but how............... u see we broke up because i was listening to my friends(which they were telling me lies the whole time and i believed them) how can i get him back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;- (
2006-06-26 14:58:25 · 19 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, get new friends...second, talk to him. It's his choice to reunite since you broke up and it was because you didn't trust him. His ego and his trust in you are likely damaged somewhat. But, be prepared for the fact that he may not want to walk that path with you again...put your best foot forward, and either way then you'll know you gave it a shot.
2006-06-26 15:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its meant to be you and him will be together talk to him and tell him that you realized you made a mistake sometimes friends can be jealous of peoples relationships so they will lie even start rumors just to break you up make sure you first give him some time to cool off if you guys get back together make sure this be a lesson learned never ever listen to others if you didn't see it for yourself it never happened .
2006-06-26 15:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple. All women are evil, and by proxy therefore you are evil. Evil is as evil does. If you want him back, then you have to give into your most basic nature, which is to be evil.
Lie to him.
Tell him what ever you think he needs to hear in order to get back with him. Tell him that you love him, more than you love yourself. Tell him that you were wrong and that he was right and that, you'll never doubt him again. Tell whatever he needs to hear.
Do really nasty things with him in bed.
Have sex with other women...with him! LET HIM **** YOU IN THE *** AND THEN SUCK HIS DICK AND THEN EAT HIS ***!
It's that simple. Just be who you really are. A nasty, manipulative, selfish ***** who really only cares about what she wants and what makes you feel good!
Because the truth is, he's better off without you, and by getting back with him, you lessen him and add to yourself. But you don't care about that. You only care about you. So go get him!
Who loves you baby?!
2006-06-26 15:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by thuggernaut2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi l chica friends can ruin things honey and if u dont get anything back from this situation atleast u learned a lesson. The thing i suggest is just keep it real honesty is the key to happiness, does he know how u are felling? Dont be afraid to communicate if hes a good guy who wants u as much as u want him hell be admiring ur heart and faith in ur decision go get him girl.
2006-06-26 15:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by imaganae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt say ditch your friends but i would say take what they say with a grain of salt.everyone makes mistakes.thats how we tend to learn.if the man in question is in love with you he will be willing to try again.this time around unless you have seen whats going on dont trust your friends more then you do your man.honesty plays a major roll in any relationship.sometimes you have to put what your friends think or say aside to see what is really happening.not saying your friends are this way but misery likes company...if they see you happy and they dont like the idea of you that way and not them...hope it works out for you..
2006-06-26 15:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by huntress2800206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if u r very sure that ur frens were lying(which i hope u r sure, n not jus blinded by love),then u should talk to him and both of u should decide what u guys wanna do. if u don wanna talk,then show some hints to him that u still like him and u want to get back wit him.however,if those frens of urs are really ur good frens,they mite have some truth in them.anyway,good luck..
2006-06-26 15:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by deborah h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if your bf dun accept u?
because of ur friends, you broke up with ur bf, this shows that there is no trust in the relationship....
in the first place, you should have build strong relationship with him. you shld not be affected by what others say. the relationship is between you two.
since you still love him. show your feelings.
perhaps girls will be shy normally, so drop hint.
if he still loves u, he will make the move to patch up again.
2006-06-26 15:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should talk to him and you need to stop listening to your friends which probably only told you lies in the first place cause they are jealous of your relationship. If he cares about you he will come back and if he doesnt then send him to hell
2006-06-26 15:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, tell him you want to talk. Then, look him in the eye and pour your heart out to him.
If it's not enough, then it never will be. But at least you tried your very best. That way, there's no regrets later.
Good luck.
2006-06-26 15:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by Schmendrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me or add me on to yahoo if u have it...i help my friends all the time the last one i helped was about 6 months ago well not really but now her and her boifriend are gettin married cool ...any way email and i will help you
2006-06-26 15:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy_Mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋