Im sixteen and evey girl has had a b for how ever long but the longest relation ship i have had was 2 weeks :( what should i do. it kinda makes me not even want to try and find a guy
2006-06-26 14:55:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Don't give up and don't llisten to people to tell you to just "hang out with girls." No matter how it ended up for them, they were probably loosers at 16.
Have fun. I promise you that there are boys looking at you right now. The problem is that most guys your age are not mature enough to keep relationships going. Still, have fun dating! It is good practice for when you meet a good guy.
2006-07-01 09:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you think you're not quite complete unless you have a boyfriend. At sixteen, it's perfectly okay to play the field. It's great to be a friend to lots of guys and not be tied down to just one boyfriend. Be cool about it and don't act needy. Not every girl has a boyfriend. And, it's normal NOT to have a long term relationship at 16. In other words it isn't your job to "find" a boyfriend. It's your job to be your best self, content with who you are, and let the right guy "find" you. Put a smile on your pretty face and try not to be obsessed about this!
2006-06-26 15:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up trying. Just don't try so hard honey. You are still very young, and you will experience many heart aches, so take your time.. Its not all fun and games being an adult especially in a relationship. Its alot of work for both people to keep it strong. It will come to you when the time is right.. Just be yourself ok.. Good luck to ya. Hoped this helped give you some insight..
2006-06-26 15:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds mean what I about to say but --who cares!!! This is the time to be hangin with your girlfriends and having fun!! Go out and have girls nite, have a sleep over and watch movies and eat popcorn and junk food and talk about life-guys included-, have a makeup and facial party
You ll have time later to meet the guy of your dreams and when you do get married have kids and have a career--you ll be wishing you had spent more time with the girls!!
2006-06-26 15:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by bulldog lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your onyl 16, take your time, high school is about going out and having fun! Don't get bogged down by that sort of stuff... You have the rest of your life to do that sort of thing, why waste good time on a boy that probably won't last past high school?
2006-06-26 15:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Harts_Runningboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. You will find the right guy soon. There is no point in having a boyfriend just to say you have one. Be yourself and have fun!
2006-06-26 15:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok im 16 too. i had 3 relationships so far,one month, 1 wk and 2 months [im still in that one tho] jsut wait for a good guy to come along dont give up.
2006-06-26 14:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be yourself and let them come to you...thats what my mom always said cause im 16 about to be 17 and i was boy crazy but when dont try to get one and be yourself if they like you they will come to you.
2006-06-26 15:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by victoria Raynisha C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry True Love Waits.
2006-06-26 14:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Virginia V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just havent found your guy yet. it is cool, you are still young and you will have many many many more realtionships each with their own length. for a while i was like that mysel. don't worry it will change in time.
2006-06-26 14:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by windspirit33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋