my hubby and i have started to swing and we love it it made us more loving we dont do it all the time but have done solo and cpls whats ur take on it
2006-06-26 14:39:03 · 12 answers · asked by sarab78@verizon.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a matter of choice and as long as you're both happy with your lifestyle and practicing it safely then no ones holding the right to judge you. I think it's great.
2006-06-26 14:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage, by the very definition, is a closed covenant between a husband and wife in the eyes of God.
In this case, having a "closed" relationship is a beautiful thing. Closed marital relationship means 'preserved from decay.' Oh the joy of being in a loving marital relationship where both the husband and wife are so wrapped up into each other that they are actually fulfilled with what's contained within the relationship.
My wife and I have been married for 15 years and I still feel as if there are many depths of physical and spiritual intimacy yet to explore.
Anything that is left out in the "open" starts to rot and before long will attract the buzzards, flies and everything else that eats something that's dead.
Swingers have dead relationships because you have broken your covenant to forsake all others. You just haven't seen the physical manifestation of it yet. You are basically married singles.
One day, you and your husband both will discover the HIGH cost of LOW living.
2006-06-26 16:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by obiwanshu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage was an elaborate idea people made up to keep stability within a family. People too have decided what is good and bad within the marriage. I think it's up to you. If doing this makes your relationship stronger then what's the harm?
some people have tried everything to make their marriage better but it ends in divorce. at least you have found something that works for the two of you.
2006-06-26 15:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by ilovedragonflies6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think if you are going to screw other people why get married. And what do you think he is doing when you are gone? Think about all the diseases you are sharing. Do you know 80% of Americans have HPV and have no idea, that most men(and some women) don't show symptoms of STD's even though they have them. That condoms don't protect 100%. But, it is your personal thing I guess, I would never go there, but hey...
2006-06-26 17:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be married ? It never made you more loving..your kidding yourself with that...it's made you both worry that there is someone out there who could take your spouse away from you...so you treat each other better than you did before...made the sex better than it was before...
2006-06-26 14:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want something like that why bother with the marriage license fee. It's a crock.
2006-06-26 14:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You disrespect the sanctity of marriage.
2006-06-26 14:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you get married your commiting to that person no one else i think it is sick for some one to do that grow up and dont disgrace marriage
2006-06-26 14:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by samm5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a marriage if it's open.
2006-06-26 14:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both agree and are comfortable with it then I say GO FOR IT.
2006-06-26 14:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by quequegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋