A lot of lesbians look better then these straight women.A couple of days ago my ex-girlfriend came out to me.I was shoked!And she so damn sexy,Its happen to all my friends and they're girlfriends were smokeing hot.But were lesbians.It happend to my dad my brother and some other guys at my colledge.It seems as though most lesbians look better.And some straight women look like Beast! I can't find one who is beautiful and straight.Or should I just go by personality and not looks.I can't help it if im shollow,a lot of people are.So I think its a tad normal to be shollow.
2006-06-26 14:34:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I dunno, I mean gay guys look better than most straight guys...maybe it's just part of being gay.
2006-06-26 14:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Of course you can help being shallow. That's just an excuse to throw a fit and say you're not getting what you want, but it's not your fault.
Look, I don't want to sound mean, but I want to point out a few things. Is it possible that you find most lesbians to be attractive because you know you can't have them? Don't get me wrong, a lot of lesbians are beautiful. In both conventional and non-conventional ways. I'm not disputing that. (Hel*, I love flattery!) But it also might be a "grass is greener on the other side" type of thing.
Maybe you aren't ready to be in relationship. And by relationship, I mean really get to know the girl...inside and out. YES, you should go on personality. Looks will always fade, but you want your partner to be intelligent and fun for the long haul, don't you? Sounds like you're just looking at a pretty face and basing all your hopes for love on physical attraction.
I'm not saying it isn't possible to find physical and inner beauty in the same package. I just think you're limiting yourself with this "smoking hot" business. There are a LOT of gorgeous straight women out there with absolutely wonderful personalities. But to you, they might not be perfect looking, so you pass them by.
Variety is the spice of life, my friend. Try hanging out with a lot of different kinds of women. There are all different types of beautiful and the only one holding you back from finding your ultimate mate is yourself and this attitude of "I'm allowed to be shallow". Well, then you're allowed to be lonely, too.
2006-06-26 22:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just goes to show you that most straight people have no idea who the gays are around them. Of course there are hot lesbians. There are also hot straight girls. You just have to find them. Try getting to know a girl, before trying to make her your girl friend. That way you'll know what her preference is.
2006-06-26 21:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does anyone look better than anyone else? Some people are just more attractive. Some of these more attractive people are lesbians. What, do you expect them all to be lumberjacks?
2006-06-26 21:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by cay_damay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
40 years of Feminism has driven everyone mad. One of the symptoms is that straight women have contempt for men. Therefore they make no effort to make themselves attractive, and, what, 2/3 of them display their emotional problems by becoming fat, the ultimate turnoff.
2006-06-26 21:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
interesting observation.... I didnt even realise that myself
maybe you can try not being so shallow yourself ;)
2006-06-27 15:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can i say im too sexy to b straight
2006-06-26 22:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz dey do u cant really answer dat
2006-07-03 11:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by LaLo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz its harder to impress another woman
2006-06-26 21:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
genetics?
2006-06-27 02:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋