I was involved with a married man for a year,
recent widow, he lied about being married and by the time he told me I was attached to him,
and he swore it was over an he was getting divorce. He really hurt me.
2006-06-26 14:32:31 · 14 answers · asked by streaker77777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Put him out of your life immediately. Cold, hard, clean break. Do not delay, do not pass go, do not collect any more heartache than you already have accumulated. He is worthless, cares for only himself, and is using you for sex on the side. I know you are hurting, and I feel your pain(been there), and I understand you want to lash out and cause him some anguish(telling the wife). I wouldnt go there, she is an innocent party. She probably is aware of his philandering anyway, and sticks her head in the sand. Let him go, sweetie, but do it quickly. This too shall pass. I hope this helps you.
2006-06-26 14:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by caelestisinferno64 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are there kids? Has he had an affair with anyone else before you? If this is his 1st time then it may have just been a fling. And he may not do it again. Other than that, Answer is =NO! NO!.. Leave it to her to find out. Do you think she'll be glad you Fu***ng her husband. She don't care what you thought her and her husbands relationship status was. This could back fire and she may come after you like some kind of witch hunt. Dump the guy and keep your nose out of it. Plus if the wife doesn't hunt you down he may.... dump him and walk away.
2006-06-26 22:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sweetie, dump him. There are lots of available guys. You probably weren't the first, and you won't be the last....He's a jerk, and you are the jerk in reserve. Once a cheater, always a cheater -- and that saying is really true honey. Turn your back, walk away, and find someone else....
2006-06-26 21:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It so sad that you both have been played on for a whole year. What a jerk beef. You should move on and look for another. Why hurt her feelings.
2006-06-26 21:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his A** to the curb honey!!! You could tell his wife but she may not believe you. Do you know his Wife?
2006-06-27 00:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the man!!! You have no reason to tell her, unless you just want to do it out of spit. Anyway it would not hurt only help him as he would probably want you to do it. "Tell her"
2006-06-26 21:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone and stop seeing him!!! Hasn't this world have enough single men for you to love, why do you want to destroy other's family? Move to other places and live a new life please, they will live happily without you and you will live more happier than him. Please, I beg you!!
2006-06-26 21:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!!! Anyman that would lie to his wife, not only will try hard as hell not to lose his wife, but will lie to you too...and he did, didn't he? Would you PLEASE wake up and smell the skunk in your bed.
2006-06-26 21:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by 0000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes by all means tell her, he is a user, dont let him use another
2006-06-26 21:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would tell her ,he should be truthful to his wife and should not cheat on her
2006-06-26 21:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by christine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋