i know a guy and i think he is perfect for me but all my friends say he has cheated and lied so much to his x's. i dont think he would ever do that to me but i trust my friends with all my heart. what do i do?
i like this guy but friends are forever, boys arn't
i don't know what to do
Am i gonna get hurt?
2006-06-26 14:27:25 · 16 answers · asked by krazykat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would personnally listen to my friends cause friends r 4EVER. and i love my friends. i would go with what they r saying.
2006-06-26 14:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by xoveexo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only use this if u think u can pull it off cuz dats what i wud do.
I wud basically get da best of both worlds. Meanin i wud keep my friends happy and not go out with him but doesnt mean i cant chill with him. He'd just b a friend... i wont get head over heels but i'll make him fall for me... i'll get him sprung like t-pain says. If he really wants me 4 me, i'll make him prove himself in a way... prove himself 2 me and 2 all the friends. Cuz u never know, he might've grow up but he cud still b a cheater so b careful.
Again, if u dont think u can do this, DO NOT EVEN TRY! cuz then u might lose some friends.
Good luck.
2006-06-26 14:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by melibishou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look at his past record. As special as you are, I'm sure the girls he has cheated on were special too. He sounds like he is trouble. The reason he continues to behave the way he does, is because there is always another girl (like you) just waiting in the wings to be his next victim. Save yourself the heartbreak and look for a nice guy...you'll be much happier.
2006-06-26 14:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already answered your question...friends ARE forever. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He's not going to change. It's a fault in HIS character; it has nothing to do with the girl friends he's cheated on. You have nothing to go on but his past behavior; it is the surest predictor of future behavior. Look elsewhere. Forget this loser.
2006-06-26 14:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by cindymonjeau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the old saying ,"once a cheat always a cheat." but and there is always a but, if you like the guy and want to be with him then be with him just be careful people do change... as far as for your friends they are only looking out for you and no matter what a true friend will always be there...
2006-06-26 14:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks to me that your going to have to do some serious thinking, to balance this all out. for one listen to your friends and see exactly were they come from, but never take it for granted that your so different that it can't happened to you to be cheated on. have you ever thought that maybe one of your friends might like this same man that your interested in. but i can say if you choose to talk to this man watch closer because if he has cheated with all of his x's more than likely he will do you the same way.
2006-06-26 14:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by tmoni1970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely listen to your friends. If I had listened to my friends and family, I wouldn't have ended up married to a user, abuser, cheater, and liar. I would have had 20 years of being with those that truly love me for me and that aren't out to get me for their own personal uses.
Friends r 4ever. Guys can come and go in a heart beat.
2006-06-26 14:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear KazyKat, if your friends are telling the truth and you trust their judgment then I'd advise not to date him We all like to think that certain situations can't happen to us! Well they can and do and you are setting yourself up for a hurt! Just my opinion good luck!
2006-06-26 14:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by RDT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind. sometimes you have to listen to your friends. I no you don't want to believe them but why would they make it up they are your friends. From a man. most men can't be trusted accept me. good luck
2006-06-26 14:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by rmoellers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....first of all if this guy has cheated on his previous g/f wat makes u think he won't cheat on u?????? hon, some guys are **** and if he has done this to MORE than one girl u are no exception....no matter how hard u want to believe that u are the greates (and even if u are) guys can be real DUMB...don't be blind to the truth cuz most cases of this the person being cheated on know but deny wat is so obviously in front of u....good luck
2006-06-26 14:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by BROWN SKIN LADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your friends. guys may come and go but friends are forever.
2006-06-26 14:31:05 · answer #11 · answered by shannon8869 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋