My friends like to watch porn and sometimes they are so horny and we jerk off together. No touching or anything, but we still see each other's "thingy". Is that weird?
2006-06-26 14:25:49 · 44 answers · asked by asiansanjose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am a porn star so from a proffesional stand point I'd have to say if you can be comfortable in front of other men doing that it makes you even less gay than a guy that would think that's sick. Keep an open mind and you'll go far.
2006-06-26 14:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dream Bree 3 · 15⤊ 4⤋
Alright, the first thing you need to realize here is that he is not rejecting you, nor is he trying to replace you with porn and masturbation. You are correct, all men masturbate and 99% of the time it's involving porn or past experiences. Let me ask you, do you think about your husband only when you're having sex? Have you ever fantasized about anyone else, or even just a faceless "person" other than your husband? Be honest, you're only lying to yourself if you aren't. Porn is the same concept. It's not someone he wants more than you, or someone he thinks is sexier than you, it's simply another body to add to his current experiences. Men are simply not narrow focused creatures sexually. I believe the reason he didn't want you to see it, is because of this exact reaction. He doesn't want you to be hurt. He loves you. However, this thing he does is a biological imperative. Men are designed by nature to be polygamous creatures. To spread their seed as far and wide as possible to ensure their lineage is dominant. Modern man is "evolved" into the monogamous creatures women want us to be for the most part, and we do so through Masturbation. I think the real thing here that's eating at you, given your description, is that you're wondering if you're not enough for him. Please understand that none of this is about you. You could be the best lover in the world, available to him 24/7 and he will still fantasize and masturbate. It is simply how men work in general. Obviously there are exceptions to every rule, but overall; you have nothing to worry about. He is doing this to keep himself from straying from you. My advice to you would be to have a frank discussion with him about his desires. Don't get all emotional over it, and don't take anything he says as something negative regarding yourself. We're all horrifying disgusting beings and we have vile and crazy fantasies rattling around in our head. Try to be open minded, and let him know what turns you on as well. You might find a whole new world with him!
2016-03-27 05:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today, when you and your friends watch porn you guys get horny together. Tomorrow, you guys will end up all sleeping together. Next week, you are angry because peter sleep with Paul and not you. Good luck. Twenty year's from now will you think this is OK? If you walked in on your dad watching porn with his friends and jerking off will you think he is OK?
2006-06-26 14:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Umm in a way I'd say not wierd but gay... Then again if you are a tight knit group and you are all ok with it I guess it's fine. I mean my guyfriends watch porn together all the time but never make it a circle jerk. Meh Whatever makes your boat float I guess
2006-06-26 14:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah not really...masturbation is totally normal, if you are watching porn you are definately going to get horny...no point in going to seperate rooms when you all know what your each doing....if you are comfortable with your sexuality and comfortable with your mates then go for it!!!!
Try inviting some girls over to help! lol joking!
2006-06-26 14:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, the circle jerk is a time honored tradition. The experience will serve you well in your college years.
2006-06-26 22:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you called it a thingy makes me think you are young and probably experimenting. You will find women much more fun than beating it with your pals...
2006-06-26 14:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by theotherguy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good one whens the next round ..
its ok ur doing nothing new as boys have had fun for millions of years with thier friends and others penis ..
shooting off into the bottle .
just enyoy what ur doing and be happy
2006-06-26 14:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by sandman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is very wierd why would you want to be around a bunch of hard legs on something that is soooooo private so if you want to jerk off do it by youself or with a gf.
2006-06-26 14:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes that is weird. You should at least do that in private. But hey, if that's what you and your "guy" friends do in your free time be my guest. If we tell you to stop doing it you are still going to do it so what we say really doesn't matter. Right!
2006-06-26 14:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine.2all 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋