i really really like her?

Question

ive meet a girl and i really really like her but how do i no she feels the same before i ask her out

Answer 1

Take a chance and ask her out regardless. You just might be surprised.

Answer 2

Question: Do you like HER, or her traits? In other words, if tomorrow you met a different girl with the same traits, would you also feel the way you do about the new girl?

The reason I ask this is, it shouldn't matter how she feels about you. If you wait until you find a girl who already likes you, you might never get anywhere.

Girls are like butterflies. If you chase them, you'll never catch them, they'll just flutter away, always out of reach. But if you ignore them, they'll flutter over to you and settle on your shoulder.

So the question is, how do you ignore a girl and get her attention?

I recommend that you look for a lot of girls that have the traits that you like, and then make a list of them (the girls, not the traits).

Once you have a good long list, then start asking the girls out. Just say something nice about them (be sincere, complement them on one of the traits that you like about them) and then ask them out.

Now, here's the secret the successful guys won't tell you: Don't care if they say yes or no. (Remember the butterflies?)

Leave it open, so she can say yes or no, and neither you nor her will be uncomfortable (one good example of this is in the movie 'Office Space' where Peter asks Joanna out)

SUCCESS!

Answer 3

Just be brave and casually ask her out. try to strike up a conversation and talk about movies or food and then say. Hey I have been meaning to see that one Do you want to go with me? If she says no then you are in no worse a position that you were before you asked her. Good luck.

Answer 4

You don't know, which is the whole point! Ask her, be nice, then step back, and wait. If she is worth her weight in gold, she'll be decent enough to give the thing a try. Otherwise, you'll find out in a big hurry, whether or not to even waste your time.

Answer 5

"but how do i no she feels the same"

You either no or you don't know.

My guess is she thinks you are a loser. Give it up, man. You don't stand a chance. Better you never find out than suffer the humiliation of certain cruel rejection. That way you can keep imagining that she might have said "yes".

Hope that helps with your dilemma.

Answer 6

SIMPLE.......JUST ASK HER OUT,.. you can spentd the rest of your life wondering and worrying about how she feels and naver find out. and wile your contemplating this, she is probably just a nervus and feels just and just waiting for some guy....any guy "with confidence" to ask her out. and if you wait too long that's exctly what will happen, sooooooooo ASK HER OUT. the worst thing that can happen is that she says no. or "sry, but i already have a boyfriend". you will never find out if you never try in the first place.....

Answer 7

Either get a friend of yours to ask about her feelings or if you have a friend that is her friend to ask them. Best way though is just to ask her out.

Answer 8

You've met her and like her and haven't asked her out, yet? Does it matter to know if she feels the same before you make a move? Move!

Lynn

Answer 9

Sometimes, you have to jump without a net! Does she seem receptive? Does she smile when you're around? Just ask her! If she says yes, you'll have your answer and a smile on your face. If she says no, you'll have your answer and be able to move on to the next possibility that God has for your life!

Answer 10

Engage her in conversation and watch how she reacts to you and if she is willing to continue talking with you. If she seems interested, ask he out for something simple like a movie or lunch.