Hi, My name is Ally. I'm 13 and me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex.?

Question

I haven't had my first ever period yet, and I'm wondering if I could still become pregnant if I have sex, without having my period (the first ever one)

Answer 1

Yes Ally.....if you have sex at this stage...
you will be fcukd for life

Answer 2

You r 2 young 2 even b thinking about sex. U haven't even had a period yet,sex should b the last thing on your mind. having sex at an early age only can hurt u in the end because u don't know what sex is r what it means at 13. Stay a child and don't rush things, this is not a decision u should b making! Take my advice u should not have sex! Don't try n find out if u can get pregnant without having a period.please wait! this is probably not what u wanted 2 hear but it had 2 b said!

Answer 3

If this is a wind up-then it is a sick wind up. You should wiat until you are the legal age to have sex-this is usually 16. What you will both be doing is otherwise considered to be a criminal offence.

I recently caught a family member of just 12 years of age taking part in oral sex-i saw pictures and videos on her camera (her boyfriend at the time was also 12 and was pressurising her into doing these things!) I had to tell my mother-who banned her from seeing him anymore. They are now not together and its only now that this family member realises that it could have turned into much more-and she wasnt ready-which she admitted,

She felt pressurised into it, and i think that perhaps you are also, if you are asking for other poeple opinions and advice on here?

You need to talk to your parents desperately and think about whether or not you are being pressurised into sex. You are only 13, why the rush? Ina ll respectm you are still a child-and so is your boyfriend.

If he really loves or cares about you-he will wait and will not pressurise you. believe me when i say that this is the truth!

At such a young age, our bodies are also not ready for sex-and having sexual intercourse young, can only bring negative results.

I waited until i was nearly 17 before i had sex-and i donot regret it. I was considering having sex when i was 15, but decided myself that i wasnt ready for it, and i dont think that you are either.

Your body isnt ready for sex-by the fact that you havent even had your period yet! So pyschically you are not ready-and emotionally-your not-as you are asking for other peoples advice on yahoo and so obviousley have your doubts!

I hope you work it out, and stay safe.

xx

Answer 4

Why are you in such a hurry??
You dont even understand the basics like when you can get pregnant let alone practice at it!
Do you really think your mature enough to try this out?!!
Your first time isnt something to be rushed in to....it hurts, its not the best experience you'll have, and at your age it would probably be quite embarrassing.
How old is your boyfriend? At your age, your body hasnt developed enough to be able to cope with something like having sex.....it might do some damage inside, then when your old enough to start a family with the person you love-how will you explain to him that you cant have kids cos you thought you were being hard and cool by shagging about when you were 13!!
Dont be such a ****!

Answer 5

Teen girls can get pregnant the first time they have sex, and every time after that. A couple that doesn't use birth control has an 85 percent chance of pregnancy within one year.
Also one in seven sexually experienced 14-year-old girls reports having been pregnant.
In a single act of unprotected sex with an infected partner, a teenage woman has a 1% risk of acquiring HIV, a 30% risk of getting genital herpes and a 50% chance of contracting gonorrhea.
Teenage girls have a higher hospitalization rate than older women for acute pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), which is most often caused by untreated gonorrhea or chlamydia. PID can lead to infertility and ectopic pregnancy.

Let me ask u a question.....are ready to live with the consequences of your actions?. You have a life time to be an adult, take your time to grow up.....it will be a better experience when your older.

Answer 6

You are far from ready, to have sex you really need to be mature, responsible and educated – if you are considering having sex at 13 years old then you are most certainly not ready for sex, as well of course as if you are asking questions like this and not ready to deal with the consequences you are not ready to have sex. Period.

I would highly recommend learning about your body and sex, I would also recommend maybe talking to a counsellor because if you are considering having sex at your age then yes, there is something wrong there, risking your health and thinking you are ready to make these sort of decisions, not to mention low self-esteem linked with dating and becoming sexually active so young, none of these things are healthy for someone of your age.

Answer 7

Honestly. How old is your bf?

ITS ALL HORMONES. Why do you want to have sex with someone you will prolly only be together for another month tops?

Your willing to have a child at 13? Your thinking what if he uses a condom it will be ok?,Knews flash, Condoms only HELP prevent, NOT STOP pregnancy. At your age SEX should be the last thing on your mind.

You want to be known as the slu* for rest of your life?

Well the ANSWER to your question sweety is YES even at 13 you can get pregnant. hell at 8 years old you can get pregnant.
Dont believe me? Look it up in history, that problem still happens today.

Ancient times, at 10 years old girls and guys were haveing babies and getting married b/c you never lived pasted 30.

So my answer is No i dont think you should be haveing sex.

Sorry.

Hope i helped ease your thoughts.

Answer 8

Yes,you could get pregnant,and that's not something your body is ready for right now....13 year old girls who are given in marraige in some cultures get birth obstruction,utero-vaginal prolapse,vesico-vaginal fistulae and other extremely serious conditons.
Having a termination of pregnancy at your age can have dire consequences on your present health and future fertility.
Added to which,even if you used a condom to prevent infection or pregnancy,you would suffer an extreme and unnecessary amount of pain,and may even develop a vaginal tear which may require stitches---
My dear,the list is endless.The emotional and spiritual demands on you are another kettle of fish altogether..
You're just not ready.
You have your whole life ahead of you.
Sex shouldn't be a priority now.
Don't give in to pressure.
You sound smart,please stay smart.

Answer 9

Hi Ally im not going to tell you not to do it because no matter what people tell you,, you will always do what you whant i know i did at that age.
First of all i do think your too young i lost my virginity at 14,and i have regreted it ever since.
I had my first child at 16 and even though i love my daughter dearly more than life itself,but that happend due to me not being responsible.
So my advise to you is to be very carefull.always use condoms,never think "oh it wont happen this once" because beleive me sweetheart it will.
If your boyfriend loves you and this is a long term relationship then yous dont have to rush, but pppplllleeeeaaaase remember PRECAUTION 1ST,i hope my answer has been of use to you,and i hope you make the right desicion xx

Answer 10

I think you're a little too young to have sex. You've got plenty of time. I lost mine at 19, but I felt like I was ready. Don't get me wrong, at that age hormones are racing faster than Daytona. You just want it bad. But waiting will make it more interesting, more passionate, and it will feel much better after you've matured a little than now. I would say for now, just foreplay with each other. That way, you can enjoy each other sexually, but not engage in that.

Answer 11

Baby girl....being young only comes around once in your lifetime, enjoy it while it's here. Don't be so quick to grow up. I agree with everyone else here...you are much too young to be thinking about sex. There will be many opportunities in life to get your little freak on.....keep your virginity for at least a few more years....you haven't even had your period yet!!! My goodness! Too young!! And believe me, there's a LOT of responsibility that goes along with sex: pregnancy, yeast infections, STD's, vaginal tearing, pain, odor, discharge and ruining your favorite pair of underwear!! Are you ready for all of this????? nope, don't think so. Keep your knees together, sweetie...and a boy should LOVE and RESPECT you before you give it up to him...okay? ((((hugs))) enjoy being 13.