My wife asked me the other day what my fantasy was and I told her, 3 some. She said that she is willing to do that for me to spice up our relationship. I kind of don't want to do but then I do. What should I do?
2006-06-26 13:25:58 · 27 answers · asked by CMACorreia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should not do it, marriage is between two people never to be a third . if it is all about spicing it up then find something else new that you two can do that will work!
2006-06-26 13:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you bring another person into your bedroom it's going to kill whatever intamacy you have with your wife. Every guy at one point thinks it would be awesome to have 2 chicks at the same time but when it comes down to it. Your wife is always going to think if you desire the other person more, it's going to lead to more perverted sexual things and ultimately just straight adultery which a threesome ultimately is
I'm sure it seems thrilling but the reality will have a horrible lasting effect that will most likely ruin your marriage and have lasting scars on your and your wife.
2006-06-26 20:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Levi I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Your fantasy is supposed to be just that ..... a fantasy. If you explore it then it will never be anymore and your marriage will be different. (take a second to think about life after the fantasy)
2006-06-26 20:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Orgininalwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT. It may be a trap....and your on a one way trip to the doghouse. She'll greatly appreciate that you never act upon this fantasy. They are called 'fantasys' for a reason. Especially if you are married, dude. Whether she says she'll go for it or not...please, for the morals of our society....honor the sanctity of your marriage!!
2006-06-26 20:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by yozombiesmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't drag anyone from your social circle into this. If you want to try a threesome, hire someone or find someone off one of the more reputable Internet dating sites. Less awkward if it doesn't work out. Be safe!
2006-06-26 20:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is honestly comfterble with doing it, and if you think shes telling the truth then go for it i guess, but 3 somes are normally good for the momment , and then all the sudden shes agueing with you because you were enjoying another womans feelings, which i understand. i dont know. 3 somes arent really for married couples, they are more for drunk teenagers.
2006-06-26 20:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it hated it caused so much confusion with my man I thought he was cheating on me, he thought I as cheating on him, he thought I was Gay, my friend and I got into a fight so I lost her my man left me for a while we got back together but it's never been the same, it's sounds good but it's not good to do it. Good Luck
2006-06-26 20:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by dangerously in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Cheating even with the other person there can only damage a relationship.
2006-06-26 21:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3sum's are hot, but this could really put a strain on you marriage buddy....better just go back to what it took for you guys to fall in love from the beginning.
2006-06-26 20:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never it is a trick and if it is not a trick and she is a freak dont trust her she will get freaky with out you too
2006-06-26 20:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋