2006-06-26 13:18:22 · 16 answers · asked by ladybug 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop trying to have sex with him! If he can't give it to you, then quit wasting your time. That only flatters him more and gives him more lead-way; if you want to have sex and he says no. I would be highly upset if I was married to a man that didn't want to engage in any sexual activity with me; I know it's not the basis for a marriage, but it sure is nice!
2006-06-26 13:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by RX2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably cheating on you. That is the first thing that men do when they are getting some from somewhere else. Do any of your neighbors have any interest in your husband? Is he coming home late and going right to sleep? Have you recently gained weight or are burning the dinners? Have you considered breast surgery? All of these things should be considered as possible reasons or potential problem solvers. He is definatly seeing someone else though. Do you have anyone that you may be interested other than your husband?
2006-06-26 20:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by jaredshouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him if there is anyone else. If that doesnt work then confront him. Tell him what this does to you. If this doesn't work tell him that you can't have a marraige without communication and make preparations for an exit plan if he refuses therapy. He could just be trying to run you off anyway. It is so immature, but, you will be surprised how many men are that reluctant to share their feelings of wanting out of a marraige or long term relationship. Make him tell you. You deserve to know.
2006-06-26 20:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man suddenly gets really disinterested in sex that's an almost sure sign he's screwing around with someone especially if he's always been rather affectioinate.
There can also be something else that's bothering him. Perhaps he's having problems medically, or loss of sexual desire. If you can get him to talk at all, that's your best bet to finding out what's bothering him.
2006-06-26 20:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you have to tell him that without open communication wich is verry important in a marriage you have nothing. tell him if you cant talk to me then what kind of marriage do you think we are going to end up with? whatever it is tell me so that we can start fixing it together! and if he loves you he will do it, i f he refuses then tell him that you dont want to be with someone that wont even try!
2006-06-26 20:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta make that m*that f*cka give you an explanation! He's probably cheating and just doesn't have enough energy left for home, use your gut instincts as a wife...... if it smells funny, then the sh*t is definitely stinking!
2006-06-26 20:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably ask him if he is cheating? When he is not wanting sex and is not wanting to talk to you about you guys then that is a prime example of him cheating.
2006-06-26 20:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
He proably got a another woman, or either
he feels unable to perform. What happen the
last time ya"ll had sex, how long has it been?
2006-06-26 21:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by streaker77777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ Freddie if hes not wanting sex then hes probe is cheating on you!
2006-06-26 20:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by destiny e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ED or erectile disfunction. Tell him your married to him and this concerns you too. Explain that if he pushes you away, he's pushing you into another man's arms.
2006-06-26 21:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋