2006-06-26 13:10:50 · 11 answers · asked by luvly_lady3426 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men are on their very very best behavior BEFORE the wedding. So if he treats you badly now, how horrible would it be after you got married? Are you listening to me?? You'd be all "OY, Seventy more years of THIS?"
Your line: "Honey, we should see other people."
He treats you badly....
You: "Honey, let me rephrase that: I'm seeing other people"
SUDDENLY he'll treat you better!!! Or at least he'll wonder.......
2006-06-26 13:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usally what you see is what you get. 'Talk to him about your feelings and if you can't now you sure won't be able to after your married. Don't rush into this marriage , it sounds like your both young and you don't want to feel like your nuthin now or the rest of your life. You don't deserve to be treated like nuthin, or feel like nuthin sweetie. Hold your head up and show him you are really something....strut your stuff. He's lucky to have you , if not, find someone who will treat you better and make you feel special..You got your whole life ahead of you.
2006-06-26 20:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ready to get married. You are both young yet and need time to be single and meet many people. He has given you no choice but to engage in a conversation of his intentions. Remember in a good relationship you should have respect for each other, treating each other very well. You are certainly worthy of his respect.
2006-06-27 00:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont marry him just because, make sure he treats you like you want before you get married. Hopfully things will stay good forever. People dont change!!
Kenny
2006-06-26 20:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by schleinee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the heave ho.
If he is treating you like nothing now imagine how he is going to treat you when you are married.
You going to be stuck home with the kids and he going to be seeing his new friends he found on ADULT FRIEND FINDER.
2006-06-26 20:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this one. Do you want to make more of a committment to someone that treats you badly??? Why don't you go to school instead and better yourself.
2006-06-26 20:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these days, 21 is too young to get married. secondly, if he's treating you "weird" why would you want to marry him?
2006-06-26 20:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is he talking and acting wierd if he is talking about getting married, is that the weird part?? i dont get it.are you talking about getting married or is he talking about getting married, maybe he doesnt want to get married.maybe you should rethink getting married if he is acting wierd ,marriage councleing.
2006-06-26 20:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bounce!
2006-06-26 20:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by pricepics 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you want to marry him because?????? You are asking for trouble.
2006-06-26 20:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋