Seems like she's nuts, but she says it's all my fault! Must be a cosmic joke????
2006-06-26 13:10:15 · 13 answers · asked by tspbrady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wish you had more detail; Like why shes angry or what makes you think she hates you. All I can really say is it because she is not getting her way, Or are you not paying attention to her, Maybe she feels you don't appreciated her! What is your fault? What are your conversations like, do you and your wife have conversations? I wish I could be more help, but I need more detail.
2006-06-26 13:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by RX2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well a wifes hormones go crazy, they are never where they should be and so we get overly mad or overly emotional and stuff sometimes, and when you men say things to us some times things that dont make us cry or angry, will end up making us mad or angry. plus that whole pms thing, talk about pain and bloating uhg! give us some props man, we have to have the pain of child birth, cramps on our pms and hot flashes that make it feel like it is 100 degrees and no energy some times. we dont hate you or love you any less it just seems that way, just be supportive and it will blow over it always does!
2006-06-26 20:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all need to talk openly about what's going on and how you each make the other feel. Then talk about what you both can do to work on it.
Don't say she's acting like she's nuts though. Use non-threatening language like ... "It confuses me when you say something like....then you turn around and say things like... I would like to understand you better so that we can both be happier. Please explain what you are thinking/feeling"
2006-06-26 20:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by miss_trita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this is one question only you can answer.
How do you treat her? Do you put her down all the time (after all, you're saying right here she's nuts)? Do you use namecalling to deal with your problems?
2006-06-26 20:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by imagineworldwide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called splitting. She has borderline personality disorder (or maybe borderline traits related to an eating disorder). These people are on a voyage of suffering. And they want you to come along.
2006-06-26 20:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is going thru some drama right now, maybe she is sick. maybe she needs time to herself and you wont help her, maybe you should record her and then let her see what the problem is , you say it is her fualt or whoevers fault , then record her secretly and show her the tape so she can see what she is doing.
2006-06-26 20:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easier to take are **** out on you guys cause we know you love us and are not going to go any where..if we didn't to some one else then we probity have a big problem but it like i said ....
it don't mean that we don't love you cause we do!
2006-06-26 20:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i got married, the judge told me that we would always love each other but nit always like each other, make sure you are giving her the space (alone time) that she needs. listen if she needs to talk!!!!
2006-06-26 20:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by frog lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wife is like that because they think u are not giving her enough attention.
2006-06-30 16:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki Cole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she Bi-Polar perhaps? Yuck!!!
2006-06-26 20:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by DreamingofU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋