I have a wife and two girlfriends. My wife after 8 years wants me to give them up. She is 41, and the girlfriends are in their early 30s. I need help in making the right choice. Right now I am leaning towards the two girlfriends.
2006-06-26 12:56:28 · 16 answers · asked by R.Longo L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HMMMMMMM I would say you need to search your heart and soul VERY carefully before you choose! Your girlfriends havent taken care of you for weeks when u had the flu. Your girlfriends dont put up with your farting first thing in the morning. They are only seeing the GOOD things- the things you WANT them to see. The grass is NOT greener on the other side. Right now its new and exciting is all. What happens when it becomes old and boring??? LOVE is what u need!!!
2006-06-26 13:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude are you just kidding or what? Why did you even get married if you were going to mess around on her? When you stood in front of your wife and told her your vows you should have meant it. I guess all I can say is that I will pray for you.
Also just to let you know a little something, if you were living in the state of Oklahoma you could go to prison for adultery. I don't know where you live but I would check the laws out.
2006-06-26 20:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by CMACorreia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are willing to give up an eight year marriage for a couple of girls that will eventually wake up to the fact that you are a user. I suggest that you stay with the wife, if not, you might end up alone in the end.
2006-06-26 20:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by sylvergyrlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself.How do you look at your wife after what you are doing to her self esteem.I hope your wife has 2- 20 year old boyfriends.And when you end up alone cause your a pig.Atleast you will still have your limp *ick to comfort you at night.Loser
2006-06-26 20:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lori26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that for what ever reason your wife loves you but If I were her (and you should be glad i am not) She should let your azz out the door and get on with her life and find true happiness and someone that want ONLY her. You, however deserve NOBODY.
2006-06-26 21:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by lilrosebud_14801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...do the girlfriends know about one another? Dude...don't be like Hugh Hefner (has several girlfriends and they all live with him). This kind of set-up couldn't possibly work out for too long.
2006-06-26 20:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Grace777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The RIGHT choice? You already know what that is. What are your values? Newsflash, buddy: she ALWAYS wanted you to give them up. What does age have to do with it? Adultery is not something to play with so it is time for you to make a turnaround. Be faithful to one woman: the one whom you married.
2006-06-26 20:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Your wife actually put up with you having 2 g/f's and you are considering going with your mistresses instead of your wife? You don't deserve any of them - especially not your wife.
2006-06-26 19:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your "wife" a favor.....give her a real chance at a REAL life. Let her go so she can live, be happy and perhaps find someone who truly cares for her and will love her.
2006-06-26 20:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the 2 girlfriends so your wife can finally snag a 'real' man.
2006-06-26 20:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by animal_mother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋