whenever i see a girl that i find attractive, i dont think twice about aproaching her, because i know being short when your a guy is a turn off for most women. i really hate myself for being short, and for not being able to start a conversation. i have been turned down a lot on the dance floor, before i even start dancing, so i know it isnt becuase they think i can't dance. i have been told i am an attractive guy, often compared to matt dillon or matt damon. what can i do to find women that wont reject me, and how can i buil up confidence enough to start aproaching more women?
2006-06-26 12:18:35 · 11 answers · asked by eronious2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
women are attracted to confident guys, and hey you will never know unless you appraoch them :) but I do know how you feel , when you get rejected so many times, you feel like a complete looser .. but you're not im sure :)
I honeslty would start by buying some shoes that have a heel on them, no kidding, ask for some help at a good shoe store. Then go to a good clothing store and ask help with some clothes that make you look taller, this will really boost your conficence i think. Then you'll be in a better frame of mind to appraoch all these women.. all the best to you spunky :)
2006-06-26 12:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just put away the fact that your short. this is not a defect, it's just who you are. If you don't find this attracting, then other women will be able to your sense of nervousness, and this is what's turning them off. If the dance floor isn't exactly a love nest for you, try other places. There's sure to be women out there who think short men are sexy. And you may even want to try looking for a shorter girl.
I wish the best of luck to ya!
2006-06-26 12:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by somepaliguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at Tom Cruse......and his lady love Katie Holms. She towers over him. So did his other wife - whats her name.
If you don't have self confidence and self love it doesn't matter how short or tall you are.
If you don't have the confidence fake it until you make it. Confidence doesn't mean you have to be outspoken or arrogent.
I would say eye contact is very important. When you are talking to a girl, look her in the eyes and engage her in conversation. She will see expression in your eyes..
You would be suprised how short some of these movie star guys are. They stand on boxes. or on the upside of a hill. Also rejection happens to everyone. it is how you recover from it that counts.
2006-06-26 13:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is always attractive to women...develop your 'game'. Believe it or not women really are attracted to who you are not what you are...look around at all the ugly guys with beautiful women.
Maybe bars are not the place for you....consider joining clubs or activities/recreation groups where women can get to know just how 'big' a person you are.
2006-06-26 12:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by climbikehikefoodandwine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are attracted to confidence. If you are confident within yourself, you won't really notice that your short. You have to remember too, people are attracted to different types of people. If your comfortable and you don't care about being short you will go along way. I love being short. I think it's cute, and people dig it.
2006-06-26 12:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach girls closer to your own height. They won't notice it was much as really tall girls. If you are more than five feet tall, then you should be able to find shorter girls. I'm not much taller than that and am not attracted to guys over six feet. The height difference is too awkward.
2006-06-26 13:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, don't hate yourself for being short. You just got to work with what you have. Also alot of girls don't mind a short guy... and look for shorter girls. that might help, and depending on how short you are...just don't go for girls who are twice your size... and you will be fine.
2006-06-26 12:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by ncosloane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might not be cause your short bud
Im 5"5' and when I was a teen up til 30 I had no problems at all
2006-06-26 12:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell women "good things came in small packages."
2006-06-27 08:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by understanding 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wear heels.lol
2006-06-26 12:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋