help i like him..but hes taken!?
ok we talk all the time, we have a lot of the same interests, he has a gf, and i really like him, we only talk about sports, he has a good head on his shoulders and he would never cheat on his gf, i just need to get over him, but he is a great person!!! i just dont know waht to do! i just hope someday i will find us together! a lot of my friends said we are perfect for eachother, but he has a gf.. and a lot of ppl hate her! what should i do?
guys: have you ever had a girlfriend and had feelings for a diffrent girl? if that girl u like asked you out in a relationship, waht would be your reaction? and if u would say yes to her, what would be reasons you would even be going out with someone when u like someone prolly better? comfort zone afraid to be hurt, or waht? thanks for any response! and ill be lookin for the best answer for 10 points!
2006-06-26 12:15:20 · 8 answers · asked by catie g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, I have liked other girls when I am dating someone else. If one of them asked me out, and I said yes, it would be because there was problems in my relationship. If I said no, it would be because I was happy in the relationship. Either way, I would be flattered.
2006-06-26 12:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a pretty sticky situation to me. my boyfriend now actually met me when i was taken. everyone said he was a jerk and i refused to believe it (or leave) b/c i was with him so long and i was comfortable with it. but this new guy just tried to be my friend and show me that he is so much better, just by being himself and NOT manipulating me. i ended up finally leaving my old bf for the new guy after about 6 months of knowing him b/c i saw that he treated me so much better and he was JUST MY FRIEND! we didn't date right away either, just stayed friends who were close so he would NOT BE A REBOUND. in the end, i think we did it right. we're super happy and have been together for a year now. it's up to him to leave or not leave. you really can't be the authority here, just keep being the girl you are and be JUST FRIENDS until the time is right for more. don't violate his relationship w/his gf, no matter how awful people say she is. if you become the girl he cheats with... then that is no better. make sure he is 100% available (emotionally AND relationship wise) before you move in. you might be making him THE GUY for you when he might not be, as well. so keep an open mind and don't devote all your time to him and finding a way to be with him. go out with other guys, get out with your friends, and be social. things will happen how they're meant to be...
i hope this helps...
2006-06-26 19:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by broadcast_girl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay his friend, and wait for them to break up, if they do. That way you'll always have him as a friend, plus you may be in a spot to comfort him if they break up.
Don't tell him how you feel, it isn't fair to you, him or his gf. Besides, do you really want to be with someone that would leave one person for another? If they do it once, what makes you think they wouldn't do it again?
2006-06-26 19:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to set you up with his good tight friends. if he's a treat his friends should be also. about the girl friend. remember people no one owns or controls another it takes two. so if he steps out then he may want and need more than one girl friend.
are you willing to par take with out expectations in the future. we live day by day. no promises can be 100% also look around there are so many singles who have qualities your into but you have created a wall with your fixation on your crush.
2006-06-26 19:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by garcon1on1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he liked you he would be with you, end of story, don't be a trouble maker , move on and stop analysing situations ,your just twisting things around in your head to make yourself think he does like you that way,,, girls like you end up to be stalkers or crazy relationship wreckers,, get a friggen life and leave the poor guy and his gf alone.
2006-06-26 19:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient.....don't rush..... if its meant to be, then it'll happen. If not, then don't lose any sleep over it. You're not in a hurry....right? Don't do anything, let things take their natural course.......best of luck to you.
2006-06-26 19:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, this is important...If he would cheat FOR you eventually he will cheat ON you.
2006-06-26 19:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by dd964vet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill an wait if its meant to be it will
2006-06-26 19:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by teenspirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋