2006-06-26 12:08:50 · 19 answers · asked by i'mgood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i used to have this same problem, then i realized the reason it was happening to her and not me. the reason is, if a guy thinks a girl is more easy, they'll flock to her. a girl like us actually have something more to offer and that is why men might not be up for the challenge. some men want an easy chase and some want something more. i wouldn't worry about it. your time to shine will come and maybe she isn't really happy w/all that attention. did you ask her? my friend still isnt' happy and has yet to find a fulfilling relationship. i am super happy w/the man i'm with now and he may be the one. hang in there!!
ps. these men might not be the type you want anyways so i'd think about it a bit more.
2006-06-26 12:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by broadcast_girl79 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Your Q has all DANGER written all over it.
I think you feel threatened and a little intimidated.
But I agree with the others on your question. Probably she is just plain slutty.
I know of a lot of women who have men drooling over them, Women who get things done and move ahead in thier careers like a walk in the park. But at what cost??? Think about that time when they decide to sit and look back at their life.. Is your self esteem worth the effort.
"A good girl will have only one man, but the bad ones many"
The ball is in your court.
2006-06-26 19:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they actual "boyfriends" or is it just that a lot of guys like her? She may just be a likable person, ya know? Or perhaps she's very pretty, and guys like her before they actually know her. If she's not officially "with" any or all of them, it may be a complicated situation for her. She may not like the attention. Or she may feel bad that she doesn't like them all back. Just a thought!?
2006-06-26 19:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Understood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are admirers, not boyfriends. There is no sin in being attractive and having attention from the opposite sex. Don't be jealous, it doesn't mean much, you will find one special person and then you won't be worried about what your friend is up to.
2006-06-26 19:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by anything_my_child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be lots of reason and all of them on the up and up. 1) Maybe she is a good listener and guys like someone who will give their undivided attention to them.
2) Maybe she responds more to guys and therefore, she herself, feels comfortable around them and they think she is one of the guys.
2006-06-26 19:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by IrishKerry13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to get upset at her.She gust might be a very loven lady.You should be lucky and not upset at her.She likes you so you should be happy for that.
2006-06-26 19:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Genetics. ;) But seriously, I think it all has to do with what's inside. If you feel confident enough, you can have people falling all over you, too. It all has to do with how you feel about yourself. :) :)
2006-06-26 19:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cause she's a b****. Ever hear of @ssholes attracting chicks? Works the same way.
2006-06-26 19:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have more self respect! One man in her life is definitely enough!!
2006-06-26 19:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way she looks/acts/dresses.
2006-06-26 19:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kitten 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋