Theres this popular boy in my school and he really like me but shy to tell me.Then before I got a chance to ask him he got suspended for a controband.Then when I found out I felt really guilty I couldnt ask him out.Then later I started liking someone and forgot about him.Will he forget about liking me.When he asks me what should I do since I dont like him.If I go out with him I become the "popular one" I like that but I dont know what to do?! HELP ME!!!!
2006-06-26 12:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by precious21babey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1. Do you really want to sacrifice your love life for popularity?
2. If not, then when he asks u, say, "Sorry, you're nice, thanks, but no thanks.
2006-06-26 12:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by i'mgood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you don't like him, then that sounds like a good thing, because he got arrested for holding contraband. That's very bad. If he does ask you out and you don't like him, tell him you're sorry but you just don't have the same feelings for him. You like him as a person (if you do), but that's as far as it goes. I mean, he's not suicidal or anything, it sounds like. If you like being popular and are willing to be unhappy for it, then go for it, but I wouldn't.
2006-06-26 19:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to not like him back...it really is.If he asked you out just simply tell him you admire him as a friend but thats it. Maybe if you become friends then later you'll begin to like him again but make sure to let him know that you're into someone else at the moment but you wouldn't mind getting to know him as a friend..
2006-06-26 19:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him just to be popular. It'll get you in trouble in the long run. If you like some one else, go for it. Don't worry about the first guy, he's probably not worried about you.
2006-06-26 19:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by jdimmitt22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him cause you feel bad or cause he's popular and you want to be. I know it looks like popularity is important but it's not. Been there, done that. You like who you like for who who he is and not what he is. if he asks you if you like him be honest, tell him no. Don't feel like you "have to" do anything you don't want to do. it's your young little life, make the best of it and be happy.
2006-06-26 19:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by lawtre808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to date him for popularity it is all under false pretense, which would be a lie.
2006-06-26 19:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by numberfourfelske 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should only date the boy you like. and he does not sound like someone you should get involved with
2006-06-26 19:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't use the guy!
2006-06-26 19:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by ltlblueyes21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋