I saw him this weekend. I always thought he was cute, didn't know he was gay. He ran away and he just doesn't talk about it. How do I bring it up?
2006-06-26 12:05:43 · 17 answers · asked by Vell g 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm not trying to put anything in his face. We have always been cool. He's not married. AND yes you can be gay and still serve God. Remember, God used a donkey
2006-06-26 12:34:54 · update #1
kellymom6
DO NOT TELL ME WHAT THE F*(&* I AM OR HOW I CHOOSE TO ID MYSELF. DON'T DISRESPECT ME AND I WONT DISRESPECT YOU.
2006-06-26 12:39:02 · update #2
Well like it was said visit him alone and see what happens. And if you would like to talk to someone im always available
2006-06-26 12:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by pistolpete797@yahoo.com 3 · 7⤊ 3⤋
so he is gay? and a preacher? hummm that is something new. well how do you know he is gay? did he tell you?
well what i can say is that preachers are all different. a lot of them tend to go out into the world and get close up and personal to people who dont know Christ. so he might of been in the bookstore to get some info on what other people look at when they feel horny. i dont know how to put it any other way. so maybe he was just studying that part of life and maybe talk about it to teeens so that they dont go into that and that he would be knowledged about it.
or if he is gay and a preacher that can be a little weird to be around him at church and listen to him speek in church. i think you should go up to him and have a talk just the two of you. ask him why he was there? tell him you are not judging him. but let him know that it kinda bothers you since he is a preacher.
so the best thing to do is talk to him about this. dont let too much time pass becus if other people find out he might think its from you. so if you talk to him let him know you will keep it a secret if he tells you why he was there.
2006-06-26 19:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean is there ever a discreet way to do this probably not try sending an anonymous admirer note and flowers, they had a website for this awhile back
2006-06-26 19:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by ambrose_01569 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is struggling with temptation and got caught. He has a lot to lose if you don't drop this, both professionally and personally. This is a battle that he's going to have to fight on his own until he decides what he really believes.
2006-06-26 19:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. He's not really a man of God then because it says in the Bible man should not lay down with man. Go to a different church.
2006-06-26 19:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he was sent by God.....could have been the devil pretending to be a preacher!......Mature believers has an old saying about things like that: "some was called, some was sent, and some just packed their bags and went"......maybe he was one of them that just packed his bags and went!... hee hee hee!
2006-06-26 19:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't he deserve his privacy?
If you are religious don't you believe that he has his won judgement coming or repentance to make?
Personally I am not religious so whatever floats his boat.
Peace out
2006-06-26 19:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with him to talk to him. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about it in public or around other people.
2006-06-26 19:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget it, who knows his reasons for going there. We all have our own demons to deal with
2006-06-26 19:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by erik c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then he's not a preacher tell someone on his punk *** that **** aint cool I agree with mama
2006-06-26 19:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by c$money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring it up! Everyone has a right to their private life.
That's so rude :p
2006-06-26 19:08:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋